HELP with a girl

@solson (406)
December 22, 2007 11:18am CST
So i like this girl alot but she tells me she only wants to be friends what should i do i am lost i really think i could have somthing good with please i need advice.
6 responses
@SachseMom (448)
• United States
30 Dec 07
If you truly like this girl then take it slow and be her friend. When I meet my husband I wanted to be friends and he was crazy about me but I didn't feel the same way. Well, we went to eat lunch several times, went to a couple of movies, he went shopping with me and we talked on the phone alot. Then one night we went out with a bunch of friends to celebrate a birthday and I saw him in a differant light!! I knew right then and there I wanted more. So I flirted with him and later that night he kissed me!! We've been together ever since and we've been married for 6 yrs this month.
@solson (406)
9 Jan 08
congrats
• United States
5 Mar 08
i think this one is definitely good advice for your situation-and a cute story : )
@vera5d (4005)
• United States
22 Dec 07
its a tough thing...and you can't really make someone like you either...the best advice is start seeing other girls...she will either get jealous or you will meet someone better!
@enbrown (282)
• United States
9 Jan 08
This is good advice also...
@Estina54 (385)
• United States
30 Dec 07
Why is it wrong to be friends? Some females don't like to be rushed. Not everyone is easy to get close to, though she might like you too.
@enbrown (282)
• United States
9 Jan 08
I think you waited too long to tell her your feelings so you have crossed over into the friendship zone. The next time around, flirt more. Being friends is not a bad thing, but if you try to start a relationship it gets all weird. You need to be a challenge, not so easy. Also girls like an edge. If there is no edge, there is no challenge. Trust me, I know what I'm talking about!
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
16 May 08
just leave her alone she said shes not interested in you than move along but if you see something that she doesnt than why didnt you tell her that ? and if you did and still want to pursue this girl , i still say dont waste your time . but you want to change up your looks and lifestyle for her to like you than dont do that , do it for you
@dzxq666 (159)
• China
4 Mar 08
First, you can tell her, "you should give me opportunity" Second, you should do everything very well, the your girl will like you. Third, you can sing a song to her with guitar.