Sacrifice for love

Love conquers all - a hand written love on the rocks
@kun2349 (23381)
Singapore
December 22, 2007 11:39am CST
In a relationship, i realise that a gal will normal and tend to sacrifice more than a guy.. In terms of time and especially love.. Y is that so?? Wat makes a gal willing to do so much for a guy and wat's so special about that particular guy that a gal can be willing to die for him without any questions?? Izit the love for the guy or something else??
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ckyera
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
hi... i guess its because of the love that we are feeling, we are not afraid to show our love & concern for the man we love and we just love unconditionally i think. well, let me talk for myself only...hehe i used to be like that before because i love my man, and im willing to sacrifice for him & i do such sacrifices to protect the relationship we have... but i believe that there's also some guys who's willing to do the same thing for the woman they love...
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kun2349
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
2 Nov 09
hehe ^_^ True love has got no limits and fear ^_^ True love allows one to show what they are really capable of doing, to protect their loved ones ^_^ ANd with the way u are sacrificing for your hubby, i believe he's worth your effort in doing so.. hehe ^_^ also, i think he has been standing by your side, and supporting u, with all his love, never ever giving up before.. hehe
ckyera
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
2 Nov 09
and so, why men can't do that? does it mean that they don't love truly? haha thus there's always some limit in their acts in showing their love? huh! why men tend to take their partners for granted? coz they are very secure & confident with the love & care that their partner is showing them? haha...but with us, i think my efforts before really helps a lot and it actually saves the relationship...and maybe that's also why when the story turns, he also do what i do to save the relationship...haha
ckyera
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
3 Nov 09
haha..in short, man are selfish! haha and why are you afraid to show your love? just because you don't want to be ridiculed by other people? huh! but i guess, its nice to see a man showing his love for his gf...but not to the extent that he will look like a fool! haha just enough to make his partner feel secured... haha, i guess you already knew it? don't you? the forgive & forget, the i was wrong when i hurt you thing!
jrichtback
@jrichtback (97)
• United States
22 Dec 07
For me, I can't say about other women, is that when I give a guy my love, I give all of my love, heart and soul. Hoping that he will do the same for me. I know that when I am with someone I want them to be happy and I know that if they love me they will do the same for me.
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kun2349
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
22 Dec 07
But no matter wat.. A guy's love cant be deeper than a woman's love for him.. That's the thing i'm puzzled.. Guys do give all their love, all the best to their loved ones too, but not to the same extend like woman.. This is a feeling i get that, when it comes to love, guys might not do so much as wat they claim..
jrichtback
@jrichtback (97)
• United States
22 Dec 07
Part of it is this the way we women know how to show our love to the men we are with.
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kun2349
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
23 Dec 07
hmmmm.. sumtimes a guy do really love a woman deeply, but just that we guys dun know how to show it well.. This is an area in a relationship that guys normally fail.. ANd thanks for your thoughts and respond :)
Sharon38
@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
23 Dec 07
For me I beleive in doing everythignfrom the heart and meaning it in the process. I dont tell a guy that I love him unless I mean it and he has alrady professed his love for me (in actions and words if he is that kind of guy). I beleive in being honest and true so I will all in my power to let him know that I love and appreciate him and I expect the same from him. DO unto others as you would have men do unto you is my motto and I live by it. So I wish you a merry christmas and a very rposeprosu new year too!
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kun2349
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
23 Dec 07
thanks :) U are right, doing everything from your heart is the only way to prove a true love :) Merry christmas to u too :)
neelianoscet
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
23 Nov 09
whew...another serious discussion again... too much pondering is need here... well, I do not experience it yet as I think it is reverse for me as the guy would be the one to sacrifice for me.. i am very much hard to deal with.. i gives a lot of headaches..lol.. well, seriously speaking, I do not like to hurt and be hurt.. i am very selfish anyway..hahaha.. i do die for him??? definitely not the type of gal as I am like to be what i am.. though, i am not yet into serious relationship as I am not serious.. what I am suppose to do?? though they like to be serious the problem is me.. they like to leap on me and the problem is I am not willing to jump.. well all die anyway..I do not like to worry about that for the meantime..hahaha
kun2349
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
24 Nov 09
haha =D Nobody likes to be hurt because it's really too painful.. Especially when it comes to love.. hehe Since u are not ready for love, nobody is able to force u into it.. and even when it's time to hurt them, u are just protecting yourself from any further unnecessary pain in the future.. haha
kun2349
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
25 Nov 09
haha =D Hope u and that guy develop something real soon, and your readiness to be in love, can hit on him too.. hehe ^_^ Good luck and all the best to u!! haha
neelianoscet
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
yup, and it is too much painful for a gal it like more than end up losing in a gambling... though both gal and guy could feel pain the pressure of the break up is more noticeable to the former.. me not ready for love??? well, am ready all the time.. it is just like the person and the time is out of time and out of space ..lol.. well, i don't know if I hurt someone.. with my action and my talk.. though, I am not a fortune teller to guess..