sacrifice your love

@monty24 (154)
India
December 23, 2007 9:25am CST
If you get to know that your friend loves your loved one but your man does not know that can you sacrifice your love for your friend?I simply cannot do that.
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@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
23 Dec 07
A good friend does not trespass to my domain, he will protect that territory like his own, should I discover that my best friend is having a pass at my girl, I will sacrifice him and lead him to understand that no one tampers with my love, as soon as you do, yu are my enemy and I will treat you as such! If however, the love of my life seems to be for my friend, I will simply hand her over to him but the relationship will not be there any more with both of them!
@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
23 Dec 07
I think it depend, i will ask first my lover if he has a feeling for my friend, if he has also a feeling then i will give way, but if my lover dont love her then i dont think i can push him to her. maybe if my friend is really my true friend i dont think she can do that for me.
@dan20071 (724)
• Romania
1 Jan 08
Hmm, that's an ugly situation. Firstly, a good friend would not even give a second glance to the person you love because he is supposed to know that if he interferes you will get hurt. If something like this would happen to me, I would try to see how serious things are and if they are too serious, I would talk to my friend about it. If I see fit, I would break my connection to him for good, because I don't need that kind of friends around me, just waiting the right opportunity to backstab me.
@2babita (1072)
• India
1 Jan 08
Well my dear friend,its a nice discussion you gave.Well,I think yes you are right.We women are very posessive,we can't leave this thing easily whether its our friend or anybody else.
@THKOhio (329)
• United States
23 Dec 07
Just because my friend loves my husband, that doesn't mean that he is going to love her in return. I would NOT end my marriage and give my friend the opportunity to find out whether he returned her feelings or not. She should respect me, my marriage, and our friendship enough to not act on any feelings that she might have for my husband.
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@lorelai (1558)
• Italy
2 Jan 08
I really don't know what I'd do in that situation. I don't see my friends' boyfriends as boys I mean, I don't see them as someone I could like so it really makes my life much easier. Would never touch my friend's boyfriend, not even an ex one. But I really don't know what it would happen if it was the other way around. I usually know what my boyfriend thinks about my friends. I think that my boyfriend loves me and if he loved my friend he wouldn't be with me but with her so I feel pretty sure about his love for me.