Losing hope in love?

Hello! I also have to confess that this fear is inside me aswell. Getting divorced itself is not what I fear, I am only afraid to have kids and then divorce. I can't imagine how bad would that be, it's something I don't want to happen to my children. I'll have to do a good job in picking the right woman before I marry, or before getting my childs. And no, most men are not jerks. You can't say that, actually I can see on the streets that men and women believe they are playing a game: the men say "I'll approach that girl and end up in the bed with her", while the women say: "I'll go to bed with him and return tomorrow with a diamond necklace". This is something I just don't think. I don't see women as objects, but unfortunately I am the only one who doesn't think like this around here (where I live). Respectfully.

Well why you are thinking so negetively friend?it is not too easy to get a divorce dear..and if you are so confused take your time, try to think positively,find the guy(all men are not same) and then tie yourself in a beautifull bond dont be so confused.

hi my friend, just to let you know that you should not be afraid of getting married. you know not all married guys get divorced. it still depends on how you take care of your relationship as husband and wife. No not all men are jerks maybe just SOME. LOL

Hi friend, Dont think in a negative way friend.Everything may come and go but due to love only this world is running happily.Marriage is a part of our life.The thing we shd keep in mind is once we get married we shd sometimes comprise ourselves with ur partner than only we can live happily otherwise what u scared would happen.Be as a good friend to ur partner and try to motivate ur partner in helping ur things done.Tell ur partner abt ur ideas and try to share everything with ur partner.I think without marriage u feel lonely,now u would be happy what u have but once u settle happily and nothing to do than u feel definitely lonely friend.So friend try to understand the feeling of ur partner and enjoy the life with ur partner.I think i am giving a small advise after that it is ur wish friend whether u have to marry or not. have a nice day happy new year in advance

My dear frined,I hope you have had lover now,you cannot doubt marry someone will end up in divorce if your relationship is good enough.Love is pretty good things in our life.It make our life colorful and make your life fullfill. If you face that choice then you can be confident and make yourself as wife or husband well.Why not think that marriage is a challenge for you,you can be capable for this issue.

Take your time and don't marry just to get married. Find the love of your life and don't let society dictate what you should do in that department. He's out there somewhere.

High divorce rate doesn't go to 100%,getting marry isn't for divorce.i see you post a lot in short time in the similar topic,which seems a little scary of marriage,then what makes you so scared? Maybe you should think about it,maybe this is the problem you have. anyway,merry X'mas to you and your lover.

Wait for the right one, then you get married. Marriage can be a great thing. It seems to me you feel pressure marrying someone you are not comfortable with. If that is the case I would be worried too. Ultimately, the choice is yours, but don't fear marriage itself. Marriage is beautiful with the right person. I am getting married myself next year and I really look forward to it. I am not afraid at all.