How to make lover feel comfortable ?

This is what I replied to one of the member here about love. "Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know he is yours and you can wait." Happy Holiday my friend.

Talk. Communication is the key to everything in life.