Scared to commit...I don't know how much pain it'll cause me
@sleepyheadwakesup (12)
Philippines
December 25, 2007 9:11am CST
It goes like this. We used to be just friends, bestfriends actually. But a few months ago, I discovered that I was the reason of he and his ex-girl's breakup (oh,they got together as a couple before the day that I met him). Over two months ago, he confessed to me that he loves me so much. Me, being carried away, admitted to him that I feel the same. Yet, right now, we're not together or anything..only because I'm scared to commit. But we do act like a couple, except that we couldn't fight when I flirt with a guy or he checks out a girl.
Lately, it's bothering me that I don't have the right to get angry...this girl (his friend) recently kissed him and he allowed her to do so anyway. I got really pissed that I kissed the girl's boyfriend too (but not like the way they did it was reallyyyy wilddd):p
What do I do? How should I tell him that I want commitment now?
Or more importantly...is it right to continue what we have right now, knowing that he seems to be immature and unsure of what he's doing in his life?
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3 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
26 Dec 07
From your discussion it seems that you have already committed to this boy. If you feel the same also, then go ahead. also why you were the reason for his earlier breakup? may be he liked you from beginning but could not say due to his Gf. Now make him understand that you are committed and he should also act properly. don't let him flirt so much with others.
@xtinelee (3371)
• Singapore
26 Dec 07
Commitment is not a one-way thing, I would prefer to think it as a 2-way thing. How old are you to think about commitment? Usually I feel that commitment issues should come to a point when you are ready to settle down with this person, mentally and physically. :)
@spiderlizard22 (3444)
• United States
25 Dec 07
If you are jealous of him being with another woman than it sounds like you are ready to commit.
