How to maintain love ?

To maintain a relationship or love you need to be able to trust each other. And you definitely need to have honesty at all times.

I believe that love is a very selfless act, one can't be out for what's best for them, but what is best for the other. I honestly believe that you reap what you sow. So if you really love someone you will continue to when the times are good/bad/or in between, trusting that love to be returned too you.

Well love sometimes you feel its boring,but in my case before I never felt it because I love surprises and my partner always did that,maybe it helps a lot to maintain our relationship more stronger.

it's really hard~ my girl and me are haing problem now, we're not in a same place and she shouted at me on the telephone line because i wasn't with her on Christmas Eve. I didn't have enough time…… God could you save me?

Love is easy to maintain where understanding and tolerance exist, Lovers should learn to understand and respect each others and tolerate each other shortcomes, There should be no comparism both in knowledge,wisdom, education, wealth and family backgrounds but to accept each other as they were created. Choose a sweet name to call your lover and treat him or her like a prince or princess and correct him or her even when you are offended and always accept corrections and try to learn to understand each others everyday

I agree with you that maintaining love is not the most easiest thing in the world. What I do to maintain the love is to keep something there that will make me want the individual even more. I try not to contact the person every day, because that might cause her to get aggrevated with me. In order to make this story short, basically what I would do to maintain love is to take it nice and slow, maintain a level head, and try not to remain to attached. Because in psychology, we learned that an over attachment by either individual will in fact cause a further seperation.

My husband and I keep love alive by never missing an opportunity to tell the other how much s/he is loved. We spend time together every day, and we never take eachother for granted. We really listen and pay attention to eachother.