who can help me with this problem
By HELMUT
@HELMUT (11)
Ireland
December 28, 2007 7:15pm CST
there is this girl i think i love and she knows i fancy her but she has no time for a lad like me.shes goin out with a proper scumbag and theres notin i can really do about that.i tink i need to get her attention but im to shy to talk to her.she probally hates me but i love her and i have to do sumting about it. can somebody plz throw me some advice.........
5 responses
@ayumitakashi (4462)
• United States
29 Dec 07
As the girls that I am I was reading this and it just brightened up my day. My face lit up with a smile. I'm glad you are asking for advice. I think that you should strike up a converstion with her about anything. Like the weather or something that you can to talk to other people. Or you can just start by saying good morning or something. Then you work your way from there and become her friend or stuff. About the guy that she's going out with, I don't know too much about what to do with him but maybe she'll dump him or something. But strike up a conversation.
@HELMUT (11)
• Ireland
29 Dec 07
the thing is we were both good freinds at one stage then it all just kind of fell apart
maybe starting by sayin hello on the street is a good idea but im not to sure on startin a conversation
i cant really tell whats going on in her and maybe she wont want to talk to me
but i know the fella shes goin out with is not right for her even she doesnt realize it herself
there has to be another way to do this than rush into it
@ayumitakashi (4462)
• United States
29 Dec 07
Yeah well you may be right but maybe something might happen or I don't know. Maybe you should look into other girls if she isn't paying attention to you. Are you sure you really love her? Or is it just like a crush or something.
@bballchamp1 (194)
• Canada
29 Dec 07
I know what you mean here, felt the same way at one point too. The best thing to do is let her know how you feel without provoking her to make a decision she does NOT want to make. If she is going out with the other guy, there is a reason no doubt. THAT is something that cannot be changed by force. Changing it by showing her who you are and how you are is the only way something like this becomes true.
One thing i might suggest is writing her a poem. Valentines day is far off but between now and then, give her small hints through one verse poems that may lead up to that day. Give her that thing to look forward to that her boyfriend would never do for her. When writing the poem, it might be better not to state whether you love her or not. Whether you feel it or not, love is profound and putting her in that situation could be disasterous for both of you.
Hope it helps a bit, feel free to respond if you need.
@HELMUT (11)
• Ireland
29 Dec 07
i dont want to rush into anything with her though
we were gud friends once and all went wrong.i do love but i dont want to freak her out. even if she wanted to talk to me it would be a start but im not to sure wots the best way to do that without makin a fool of myself
@hipsunhopgod (202)
• China
29 Dec 07
ooo...i c...u should be straight 2 her,i thnk...
btw,it seemz like u put ur post in a wrong place...
haha...jus hv fun!
@nativepukeko (49)
• New Zealand
29 Dec 07
Are you sure shes the one? What are your standards for a mate? If shes with someone else she may be honourable to him. Dont you want some one who will be honourable to you?
