living with regrets
By jess08
@jess08 (18)
United States
December 28, 2007 8:42pm CST
in life we all do things that we later regret...words we wish we could take bak or situations we wish we had never gotten ourselves into. but as we all kno as well we cant go bak in the past and change them. so my question is how do yu deal with these regrets && how do yu make them have a positive impact in yur life?
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@angelface23 (2494)
• United States
29 Dec 07
i used to have regrets about breaking up with my ex. He was my first love and all that jazz and my husband doesn't even compare to him. But I have stopped trying to compare the two and I am trying to move on although it is still very hard for me to do even after 2 years. I guess I just have to know that he loved me and that we didn't work out because we aren't meant to be together.
@tazpromote (965)
• United States
29 Dec 07
Hi Jess and Happy Holidays,
I did something last year that I will regret for the rest of my life. I let a man go that was better to me than any man I've ever met. We parted and I realized it was me that was causing our problems, so I made it my business to go to him and apologize for what I did. We are now the best of friends and can talk about anything and everything. I am still kicking my own butt for letting him go and hurting him the way that I did, but I apologized for it and now feel a little better about the whole thing.
I think the best way to deal with things that we do to others that we regret is to apologize for it and pray that they truly forgive you.
I hope this helps.
Take care!!
~~Taz~~