Scrafice Friends Or Love?

at first I thought you were talking about the movie "scarface" but that was strange? it was a good movie..but very violent...al pacino? well, i think i know what you mean..you are always asked to give up or sacrifice your friends, family and whoever else is in your life..because love can be jealous and very demanding ...i know.. i have been on both ends of this arguement..and I was a lot jealous and now I am more secure and also my wife is very secure so we don't have an issue with this as long as I give her all my time and money...lol

i will frankly tell that i will xplain my sitation to my love , if she hesitates i will avoid her

You should be able to have both. If your lover forbids you from having friends then they aren't the right person.And if your friends make you choose between them and your lover, then they aren't your real friends.A good lover should understand that you have friends. And good friends support your love affairs even if they don't think your current love isn't right for you.

If someone truly loved me I wouldn't be placed in the position where I had to choose so if I was my friends would be there, as they always have been. Friends win every time unless ofcourse they happen to run off with my husband (you know who u are)