what if you found out...
By flomikren
@flomikren (301)
Philippines
December 29, 2007 10:29pm CST
i have this friend girl, that recently i just found out that she just befriended me because of my friend boy... at first this friend of mine the boy close to me, and then she enters in my life as a friend and start liking what i like and start dressing what i like, and then after that the boy and that girl became close, i didn't think that they have relationship because they both are married... i just found out their relationship when the wife of my friend boy, confront and slap this girl... i couldn't believe it... but the girl confess to me that she loves the man... i feel pity for her family specially to husband working on abroad... I hate it, if i could turn back the time... maybe i didn't go with them, the people thinks that i know they have relationship because i'm with them everytime we went out...
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7 responses
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
30 Dec 07
It's so sad because the girl was just only using you for her to get close with your friend guy. I think it is unethical to do such kind of act, in light of the fact that she was already commited with her husband. :-)
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@glitzypurple (1477)
• Philippines
30 Dec 07
Don't blame yourself, you didn't know that in the first place anyway. If I were you I'd be upset because that girlfriend of yours used you to befriend that guy...
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@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
30 Dec 07
hi flomikren!
hey that is so hard! gee, i mean it is bad enough that they are now in a compromising situation, and to drag you into it! the nerve!
well, you can;t really blame yourself, because you were not part of the plan in the first place. i think it is best that you stay away from them, lest you will be blamed for their relationship.
hope guidance will lead you. happy new year!
@nmhschic2004 (1238)
• United States
30 Dec 07
If I were you I would be upset that this girl used me to get to my guy friend. She probably knew exactly what she was doing. Don’t blame yourself because its not at all your fault. I also wouldn’t worry about what others think. If someone says something you can tell them you knew nothing about it. And if I were you I would tell them what I thought about what your “friends” are doing. I’m really sorry that your friend stooped to such a level to try to get a guy that is married. But you have to remember its both people’s fault. Not just ones.
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@alamode (3071)
• United States
30 Dec 07
It's very sad when people you think are friends turn out to be just using you... it sounds like both of these people are not trustworthy, and you would be better off with different friends who won't make your life difficult! This was not your fault.
