what should i do
By champb21
@champb21 (1)
United States
December 30, 2007 9:23pm CST
ok i got a girlfriend im in a fight with because i found out that my friend and her been messagin eachother. she was saying i need u and since he my friend he told me what she was doing. i confronted her and she said its not like i said i like him all i said is a i need him. we argued over the fact that i think its wrong what she did and saying she needs him means she likes him not me. She said i got it all wrong my friend likes her she dont like him if she did she wouldnt be going out with me and if she liked my friend she could of got him easily cause she gets all her men. what should i do i tried apologizing she just mad now?
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@neelygal (1022)
• Bahamas
3 Jan 08
You should leave her alone,because hello.....if shes telling another guy she needs him then either you are not doing something right or she is plain and simple a lover who needs more than one man to keep her happy. It might be that your friend likes her too but she has some sort of feelings for him also if she says she needs him.
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@phillyeagles4eva (89)
• United States
31 Dec 07
I would dump her. Young People dont need a girlfriend really. its a waste of time and money if you ask me.
Maybe making love with (good friends) once in a while is ok but no need to be in a realationship before your 18
She does not sound like a nice girl anyway
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@argie713 (1809)
• Philippines
4 Jan 08
Well, you should talk to her and understand everything she says. You need to apologize to her. Maybe she needed your friend at that point in time and you were not around. Maybe she just needed someone to talk to or be with when you were not there. It's just normal for people to need someone other than their boyfriend/girlfriend. You must trust her when she says that she loves you.
@blueunicorn (2401)
• United States
3 Jan 08
At age 15 you really don't need this kind of stress in your life. If your girlfriend is not going to be true to you, move on. You deserve more in your younger years. Trust me, you have plenty of life ahead of you that will bring stress. Let this go and move on!
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@jasonanderson (151)
• United States
4 Jan 08
well, since you made a big deal about it its kind of too late to really handle this correctly. but in the future, when some bs like this happens, just tell her very calmly and matter of factly that you don't want to see her anymore since she obviously is inclined to have inappropriate conversations with other guys (especially your friends). don't give her a chance to apologize, just leave her with that. she'll convince herself it was the biggest mistake of her life and if you choose to you can take her back whenever you want, on much better terms than you started with.
how come nobody was telling me this stuff when i was 15?
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