Happy New Year!!! What are your traditions during this occasion??

grapes - grapes by the window
@secretbear (19448)
Philippines
December 31, 2007 10:34am CST
everyone! its 30minutes past 12 midnight here as i am writing this discussion amidst the noise outside and the cold wind blowing. ^__^ my mother just asked me to hang grapes by our windows and doors as part of our tradition every time New Year is approaching. we were late this year. ^__^;; my mother forgot she had grapes in the fridge. LOL anyway, it is said that hanging grapes would attract more luck for the whole year. the grapes would stay by our windows and doors until it withers or until no one is eating them. LOL so what are some of your New Year's traditions there in your place?
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
31 Dec 07
I really can't think of anything I do as a tradition other then just wish everyone a happy new year! The grape thing is very interesting! I heard once that anything that looks like a frog brings in prosperity! LOL....Happy New Year secretbear!
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
31 Dec 07
i have just eaten fruit and i think this is as near as we get to a tradition
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
LOL if anything that looks like frogs really do bring prosperity, i still wouldn't bring one inside our home! ew. LOL i don't like frogs. ^__^;; happy new year too jill! ^__^
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
31 Dec 07
The grape tradition sounds very interesting. Hope it works well for you and your mother. Actually we don't have any traditions persay. Most often we go out to eat and then either to a house party or back home. We don't go outside and bang pots and pans or do anything special.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
i don't know if it works but it doesn't hurt to follow it. ^__^;; i hope you'll have a New Year blast! ^__^ happy new year!
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
1 Jan 08
Years ago we had a neighbor who use to go into the street and bang pots and pans. She grew up and stopped....lol I was asleep by midnight here. Phone call woke me right at midnight.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
3 Jan 08
LOL we had a neighbor like that too!! he would not only bang aluminum caldrons and other kitchen utensils but he would also run with the utensils tied behind him so it would really create a very loud noise!!! ^__^;; i think he has moved years ago because we don't see that man anymore.
@Arkadus (895)
• Canada
31 Dec 07
We have none what so ever. Closest thing to it is an event being held by other people around town. But I wouldn't call that tradition at all because it was completely different every time around and sometimes it didn't happen. I never heard of hanging grapes in the house though, thanks for that little bit of extra knowledge. ;D
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
hi arkadus! ^__^ i'm happy to share our simple tradition. i'm glad some people thinks its interesting. we also prepare a set of different round fruits. it has to be round because it would represent money and luck for the year ahead. ^__^ happy new year to you!
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
here's the picture of some of our fruits on our table. ^__^ Happy new year again!
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
fruits - fruits for New Year
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@shinjiao (1457)
• China
1 Jan 08
Hi dear secretbear! I just experienced a busy morning. Today is the first day of New Year and this New Year's Day I have spent with my dormmates and friends. This morning,almost all of us were washing clothes,shoes and bed sheets.I believe we just want to enjoy a clear and clean New Year's Day.^_^ Happy New Year to you!
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
hi shinjiao! long time no see! ^__^ so you spent your New Year in your dorm?? you didn't go home for the holidays?? Happy new year shiniji!! ^__^
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
3 Jan 08
oh that's just too bad. but it sounds like you are used with that kind of situation. does that happen to you every New Year's Day?? and that exam last Sunday is unforgivable! how can they schedule an exam during a Sunday! .
@shinjiao (1457)
• China
1 Jan 08
No,I didn't go home for the holidays because time was limited and I have an exam on Sunday so that I had to spend my holidays with my dormmates. So this year's first day was just soso.I cannot taste the home-made dinner tonight!
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
1 Jan 08
Hello my dear secret bear friend. I wish you good luck all the year round. It is interesting to know that grapes are hanged by the windows and doors to bring in good luck. I will go and buy some when I have time to get out on the street and do the same accordingly. lol. Ok, usually we put on the wall next to the big door and on the door some nice and encouraging words written on red paper to bring in good luck to the new year. This is our usual practice. Thanks so much for your new discussion. Happy New Year and Good luck to you all.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
11 Jan 08
hi william! ^__^ your discussion is so like Chinese! well, i really don't know anything about Chinese tradition but when i read that you hang red paper with encouraging words, the red paper made me think of Chinese. ^__^;; i think its because they love red because they consider it as a lucky color. ^__^
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
is there any history about why you consider red as a symbol of luck? coz i only know that red symbolizes love, passion and bravery. ^__^
• China
12 Jan 08
Yeah, red is considered to be lucky color in our culture. When we are going to attend a wedding party, we also put money in the red paper envelop. Thanks, dear friend.
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@sid556 (30959)
• United States
1 Jan 08
This is my first new years off in 15 years. Prior to that I was in a terrible marriage and new years was just a bad time. Tonite my fairly new boyfriend decided to spend the holiday with friends that niether of us really know. I am here by myself and thinking that I really don't like this holiday much at all.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
oh sid. that's just so bad. shouldn't you be with your family celebrating the new year?? or some of your close friends perhaps?
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
3 Jan 08
oh well.. ^__^;; there will always be a next time. a next time to avoid doing the same thing. ^__^ have a happy new year ahead of you!
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
1 Jan 08
ya, I could have gone to my daughters out of town but weather was bad and i had the house to myself...a rarity and stupidly thought my "boyfriend" and i could have some quality romantic time together. dumb me. oh well.
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• Philippines
1 Jan 08
we just watch fireworks.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
thanks julia. ^__^
@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
1 Jan 08
I have never heard about this grapes thing.. NEVER EVER! lol i think its kinda cool, but kinda silly too! Why would grapes bring you good luck ? Maybe she just wants some raisins! *giggles* Interesting tradition though secretbear, I like to learn about other people traditions. Where do you supposed this tradition stemmed from ? Like cultural background or whatever ?
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@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
12 Jan 08
Sounds good to me hehe, now that i think about it i think i have seen some people with FAKE grapes hanging around their doorways, like older people on my dads side of the family.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
for one, grapes are round-shaped, and round-shaped fruits are said to bring good luck, particularly financial luck. ^__^ and then hanging them in windows and doors, since windows and doors are openings of a house, the grapes would guide the luck to enter into these openings. ^__^ that's all i know. ^__^
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@catbvq (364)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
We have many New Year traditions, or you can say superstitions here are some of them: 1. Before New Year's eve, we have to gather 12 kinds of fruits to be placed in our table, our folks believe that if we could gather 12 kinds of fruits (which symbolizes the 12 months of the year), we won't go hungry for 12 months. It is more good if those fruits were all round (a symbol of plenty in our country). 2. We should be wearing polka dot dress/clothes during the night to attract lots of money (coins) 3. We must fill all pockets and wallets with money, so that we will have money all year long and fill our refrigeratos, pantry, cupboards with food so we will have plenty to eat the whole year long. 4. We must open all door, windows and drawers so that the New Year's luck will enter. 5. We should serve Fish dishes, a native food (kakanin) called "Palitaw" during the New Year to attract luck for the whole year, and never serve chicken whic is believed that if we do, we will be searching and finding little of everything.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
you summed it all up cat! yeah, i forgot to mention numbers 1 to 4. ^__^;; i'm a Filipina too y'know. ^__^ but one thing i don't have any idea about is number 5. i didn't know that. though, i love palitaw and fish. ^__^
@aissha (2036)
• India
2 Jan 08
actually u know what in my religion it is not new yr. for us it will be in mid april ,that is tradition ,but we are in habit of celebrating the new yrs. on 1st jan only so it is all mixed up we just awake till midnight and eat more than other days ,lol and next day we write if needed 01/01.... ,lol
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
oh i see. thanks for that info aissha. what is your religion by that way?
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
2 Jan 08
Happy New Year, secret!! ^_^ sorry that i was busy for the past 2 days ^_^ how's your new year celebration?? hehe.. I do not have any traditionals during this occasion or any other occasions except for chinese new year.. hehe ^_^ Hanging grapes by the windows and doors is interesting but why grapes?? hehe ^_^ Wun it attract flies or insects to eat it?? LOL
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
because grapes are round shaped fruits that can easily be hanged unlike melons and apples! LOL and round-shaped fruits represents luck particularly financial luck. ^__^
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
15 Jan 08
That's interesting.. hehe ^_^ Round things represent fianancial luck?? If that's real, i will wanna hang many round things in my house and in my room too.. hehe
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
Hi secretbear, I don't have any traditions, though my grandparents has because they are Chinese and my mother didn't made us follow it. Now that I have a kid of my own, I prepare foods, buy round fruits that my money can afford not 13 and buy little fireworks to drive evils. Thats it! HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
hi fairlady! ^__^ i didn't know that your grandparents were Chinese! so you mean, you only celebrate New Year during Chinese New Year when they were still alive?
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
9 Jan 08
I don't know of any in my country, Canada, but I think it is more a personal thing than a country tradition. We don't, my hubby and I, have any traditions for new years. But I do like the grapes thing you do. I have never heard this before and I think it is cute.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
hi chrislotz! ^__^ personal traditions are nice too. i think here in our country we just believe in so many things. ^__^;;
@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
31 Dec 07
The biggest New Year tradition my family does, which has lasted for about the past three or four years, would be going cosmic bowling. We would start at around 10 p.m. and keep going like two or three games until after midnight. I don't know if you're familiar with what all cosmic bowling entails, but it's such a blast. There are TVs in the bowling alley, so we would all stop bowling to watch the ball drop (and see all the couples kiss - YUCK! LOL) Then we'd continue our current game until we're done. That's about it. We always eat some really good food too! I don't think we're going to keep up that tradition this year, but who knows. Maybe it will work out. I guess it isn't much of a tradition if we don't keep it up this year, is it? Thanks for asking!
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
hi jj! ^__^ i don't know about cosmic bowling but it sounds fun! i like bowling too but i never get to do it often. why would a couple have to kiss while bowling? Happy new year!
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@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
13 Jan 08
Hi there, Secret Bear, and thanks for best response! I'm sorry that I didn't make it clear about couples sharing their New Year's kiss - lol. In the U.S., couples usually kiss to celebrate the New Year. I suppose it's just an understood thing because of the tradition that so many couples have continued. Cosmic bowling is a blast. I hope you get to participate in it sometime!
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@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
we always welcome new year traditionally with prayers. All family members from parents to kids and grandchildren and relatives in the house when 12:00 midnight strike we all gathered , prayed to God and say thanks for the year that has pass and prayed for bless year to come . after that we greet and hug each other and share the foods that we prepare and enjoy the time see the fireworks outside and make noises.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
that's a really sweet and nice tradition you have cheenlly. its a good way to keep the family ties strong. ^__^
@subha12 (18441)
• India
1 Jan 08
There is as such no tradition in our family for new year. we just celebrate it and wish each other.I think what you described is nice ritual. Happy new year.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
thanks subha. its a really fun tradition. we also prepared a set of different round fruits on our table to bring us more luck and good fortune. ^__^ happy new year subha!!!
• India
1 Jan 08
Happy new year 2008 to everyone.We dont have any traditions I just thanked God that He made us see One more year.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
hi kunwar! ^__^ we also thanked God because the family is still together to see the coming new year. ^__^
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
1 Jan 08
I love it! Then the grapes become raisins, lol. My tradition used to be watching the New Year's Eve celebrations from Las Vegas broadcast on TV and wishing I were there, but now we live near there, so that is old hat. I love how quiet the whole "world" gets on New Year's day. Sometimes I like to drive around and enjoy the fact that the streets are completely clear of any cars or people. It is just so kewl.
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@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
There are a lot. But what I religiousl folows are attending mass and eating at exactly 12am. It is a day of obligation for us catholics. So attending mass is a must. Eating is part of the celebration as well as fireworks.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
11 Jan 08
T.T i didn't go to church that day. it makes me ashamed but we never really got used to going to church during New Year. ^.^
• India
1 Jan 08
Hi! We, Hindus start new year on Gudhipadwa, which is the first day of Indian Solar Calender. our ancient books say that God created world on this day.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
oh i see. thanks for that information. ^__^ i didn't know before that Indians has a Solar calendar. i thought it was only the Chinese with a different calendar. ^__^;;