Should he take her back ?
By ileke4christ
@ileke4christ (62)
Nigeria
December 31, 2007 12:35pm CST
A friend of mine has a girl he was about to marry but the girl left him for another man who was richer and got married to the rich guy . This incident happaned about 2years now
Unfortunately, the rich guy died in an accidents about 5 months now and this girl is now pleading and calling my friend to accept her back,that she was deceived by her parents to marry the dead rich guy.
In this situation what should my friend do? Should he accept her back or what? After his heart was broken and abandoned because he was poor.
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3 responses
@treasurechest (67)
• United States
4 Jan 08
A lot can happen in 5 years. He could start out just being a friend to her. Of course he needs to forgive her for what she did and give her a chance to share what's gone on in her life since they parted ways. Perhaps they could be happy together. I suggest a lot of prayer and taking it very slow if he feels like giving it a try. It would have to be up to him to make the decision. God has a plan...
@treasurechest (67)
• United States
4 Jan 08
I meant a lot can happen in 2 years. Sorry for the blunder.
@ileke4christ (62)
• Nigeria
4 Jan 08
Thanks alot for your comments and l did also advise him the same, the choice is left to him to make.
@squaretile (3778)
• Singapore
10 Jan 08
the simple straightforward answer is a resounding NO.
If there were other extenuating factors like she was very poor and had parents that needed medical help which was why she married the rich guy even though she didnt necessarily love him etc, then maybe.
But without those circumstances, the picture presented of her is one as a simple gold digger. and your friend should definitely NOT take her back.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
5 Jan 08
Hello dear ileke. I could understand your friend. You know, when one loves the other deeply, even if he is badly hurt once, he would accept her once she shows the feeling of hoping to get back to him. This is emotion, so complicated and not easy to be well explained. Thanks for asking us for our views, dear friend.
