Happy Stupid New year everyone!!!

I, too, am spending New Year's Eve alone, although my circumstances are a lot different than yours. My husband is in the Army and is currently deployed. It is very depressing for him not to be here. My kids are in bed and I am here on my computer just waiting to get tired so I myself can go to sleep and forget about all of the holidays. He's been gone since June and has missed a lot of birthdays, Christmas, New Year's, and of course he will miss our daughter's second birthday and our son's 10th birthday. It's hard, but if you let yourself get to down it will get to you more than the good things. I'm trying my best to get out of the depressed mood and just be thankful that I am here another day and keep going. I'm sorry your having such a difficult time this New Year's, but I wish you the best and hopefully this New Year will bring you more joy and someone that really loves you and your son and that will take care of you. God bless and keep us posted.

Although it would be hard, just try to forget him and never look back, its a new year so start your life like new. Don't live in the past, try to live everyday for tomorrow.

Do not be upset, try your luck, misfortune never comes alone but never stay forever. Marriage and Hanging do by destiny so what was written in your fate has happened. God will save you and will take care of your son. Be patient and wait your fortune will turn again upward. Whatever happened in your life, take it as an accident. In this world many people like you are alone and are in problem with cheat and lier hubby or boy friend. Some man has no mercy in their heart, they are cruel, they have no mercy in their heart for their own kids and I think they are worse than a beast. So do not upset for a beast you will get a human with real love and have affection and love in his heart. I was alone in the 31st night but never upset as I take it as my fate for this year and will try to change it for next year making many online friends.

Things will get better. I have been alone on New Years in the past so I understand. That is great about family being there for you. That is what they are there for and that you have that support. Hang in there.

Happy New Year Lizzy. There are stupid people and stupid occasions, but I know you are not stupid and definitely the New Year is not stupid. Many people are experiencing the same situation as you, but its for some valid reasons and not out of stupidity I guess. Anyway, you are not really alone coz you have your son with you and your family and friends of course. Cheer up and be happy.

Cheer up,its a brand new year.Sometimes things happen just because they are supposed to happen that way.Some relationships are never meant to be in the first place.Just think of all the eligible men that are alone right now and one of them is waiting just for you.I believe there is someone for everybody.Your soulmate is still out there and I don't think its the one that left you in March or he would be with you.In the mean time while your waiting for the right one to come along you have this time to spend with your son.So let your son see a happy face and move on with your life.You are probably better off without that guy even though it hurts really bad.

Sounds to me like it's the best thing that could have happened to you. The guy sounds like an idiot. Be glad you're celebrating alone, better alone than with an idiot.

I'm sorry to hear that you are having a hard time at this time of the year. I did spend new years alone, but only cause i have a small baby and my hubby fell asleep EARLY. lol. it sucked, but in reality it's just another day right ? You never know where you will be in another 5 or even 10 years, so cheer up and keep your chin up :) When things can't get worse, they can only get better right ? That's the way i try to look at things. . i dont know if that is going to help you or not.. but i hope so.

I am alone and have and awful cold, I am now watching home improvement. Anger and depression will not improve your situation. Think what you can do in 2008 to move on and forget that loser and improve your life. This way, next year at this time you will feel good about what you have done. Go to school, get a new job, find a new hobby, make new friends, meet new people. You will soon find out that the 'love of your life' was more like a weed then a flower in your garden.

happy new years to you too and your not alone you still have friend like me so once again happy new year!!!

I'm with my family, but I am also far away from my love. She lives in the United States while I am in the Philippines. It does add a sad tone to the holidays. I just try to be positive about it hoping that some day we will be together.

ah barf buggies ! YOU are NOT ALONE . . . cause I am here , we are here, myLotters round the world, reaching out and giving you the time to make ranting and raving the best part of new years rockin' evening ! Let it out, scream n' shout, who the heck cares if they hear what its all about: LOVE but hurts right now as LOVE also does teaches a lesson that ALONE is also LOVE . . . so here at myLot, feel the LOVE !!!!!and not lonliness . . . sharing the light and happy holidays, Miss Erica Hidvegi, the Enlightenment_Advisor, B.A. Psych/M.A. Transpersonal Studies- Cnslng/Author, Artist, Photographer, Entrepreneur & Freelance extraordinaire

Happy New Year, let's welcome 2008 and hope for more company. I,myself,and spending New Years Eve with my family and without them I know how lonely and depressing it could be.

I am celebrating alone tonight, but I'm not mad about it. To me, new years eve or day is just another day. I don't give it the hype that most people do. In fact, what I'm doing tonight can't really be called celebrating. Depending on what happens in a person's life, a day in the middle of January could be more important than right now. Don't let the hype get to you.

Well,you got the last rage of 2007 in and now hopefully can start the new year fresh and ready for a new,better year.Let's think about the new year......you and your son on a new life with challenges and memories.......no male you have to wonder about......choices to make.......new friends to meet/chat/bond with...... Seperation/divorce IS very hard and it leaves many gaps in your life,but it also opens many doors for you.Sometimes the bad outweighs the good(especially for the first while),but in the long run the changes will have benefits for you,your son and your future life.Take care,stay strong, and I will see a better report from you next New Years.

I don`t think so, I am happy because a new year has gone now and we can change our lives in order to still improving day a day, Have a nice day.

Hey I was once alone for every holiday for two years,and it sucks. Being a mom of three, I found shareing the holidays with them was way more special to me and them than having a man.But it is nice to have one though. My advise is, this IS a new year, make 2008 count for you and your child.Be independant,find your footing and stand,and make men work for your heart and your childs. Your man left which shut the door on him,and let a new one open for more to come into your life with working,Getting your OWN home,and when ready ,go fishing (dating),go out and have fun, just don't settle with one any time soon, have fun with your life and make your child happy.Make 2008 woman a proud independant one.Good luck and may many Blessings come your way this year and always!