3 dogs and a baby
By DJ9020
@DJ9020 (1596)
United States
January 1, 2008 2:54am CST
My daughter just had her baby, yeah!!!! Now that they are home, we have been watching the dogs closely. Jingle and Molly are more interested in the formula than the baby! But Trixie is very interested in the baby. She will sit and watch whoever is holding him and whine. She sniffs the crib and the bassinette a lot, and even jumped into the bassinette one day (the baby wasn't there at the time). We're not quite sure if this is good interest or bad interest. How have others handled babies and dogs? Any words of advice or caution?
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
1 Jan 08
It sounds like the dogs really like your daughter's new baby. It is bound to be quite an exciting change to their life. Maybe Tixie is interested in exploring the baby's things. She wants to be sure of her owners love for her. It is lucky the baby was not in the bassinette when she jumped in there. I think it would be a good idea to give the dogs time and understanding. They will soon settle down and accept the new family member. I have two miniature poodles called Secret and Magic. I had a new baby in May so he is now 7 months old. The worst thing I have to worry about is Magic wanting to lick his little hands. She is such a sweet dog but this sort of activity would give germs to my baby. So I wash his hands if this happens by accident. We had a toddler cousin visit him. She kept trying to pull the dogs ears, not very nice behavior but she was just exploring. So I suggest trying to encourage a good interest by saying good dog when Trixie, Molly and Jingle show good behavior. Show them much interest and love as well. Good luck.
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@UnselfishShellfish (1306)
• United States
3 Jan 08
"She is such a sweet dog but this sort of activity would give germs to my "
Everything your baby touches inclucding you 'gives germs' to your baby.
@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
3 Jan 08
Here is a link to a good article about dogs and new babies:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/363035/_introducing_your_dog_to_the_new_baby.html
I would definitely discourage the dog from jumping into the bassinet! Trixie may be a bit jealous of the attention the baby is getting; I would be sure to give her plenty of attention to let her know you still love her. Our dog Twix is jealous of the new grandson, but she doesn't act threateningly toward him; I think she likes him and is curious. She will try to jump in my lap when I am holding Louis and will lick all over his face if she can get away with it!
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@carpenter5 (6782)
• United States
3 Jan 08
What kind of dog is Trixie? Of course you have to be very careful, especially if that particular animal has been treated as "the baby". Lots of times, they feel like they're being replaced. My brother and sister in law just made sure that the dogs continued to get lots of attention at the same time as the baby was getting it. One would feed Izzy and the other would get Little Bit a treat. That way the dog knew that she was still an important part of their lives, and wasn't simply being replaced.
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@UnselfishShellfish (1306)
• United States
3 Jan 08
A lot of new parents want to get rid of the animals after the baby is born. My only q uestion is if you think like this, why did you get animals in the first place? There is room in your life for both human and animals, so why does the animal always lose?
Just give it time. The dogs will settle down. The dogs are not used to the baby and they are just exploring. Tell your daughter to put up a screen door on the nursery. The dogs can look in and smell, but can't get in. Plus it's helpful if she has to shut the door to keep the dogs out.