Why is that some people can be so judgemental with out all the information ?

Human nature my friend. Some people can't help themselves. These are usually the ones that talk a big game behind a computer screen but in real life would never "dream" of openly judging someone. They probably are just ones who would rather talk behind someones back than to their face- who needs them?

Well, I guess it's human nature to assume things without getting to know all the information. And honestly, I don't think they would change their opinion if they knew all the facts. That's how people are. We have to learn how to take it in our stride and ignore such comments (as long as they are not directly attacking). Why do we need to get worked up about ANOTHER person's opinion? You don't know them either and shouldn't care less what their opinion is. I know I used to get all worked up when anyone was judgemental towards me. But then I realized soon enough that it just led to another war of words and no was to gain from it. The other person wouldn't understand (or chose not to) how they were being judgemental and each of us would go on attacking the other or trying to prove our point and it didn't help the discussion in anyway. So, now I choose to ignore such people or probably put my point across in a nicer way and stop at that even if they respond in a judgemental way again.

Don't be affected by this "judgmental" thing. This a site where we are free to give our opinion. so don't take it so serious. Go on and keep on!

Heehee I've read the discussion in question as well and I look at it this way. It is human nature to jump to conclusions. People very rarely like to take the time to gather all the facts and usually like to just spout off an answer thinking that the information they do have is enough for them to form an opinion. Usually discussion posts are short and a lot of the information is left out just to appease the people who respond that have the attention spam of a fruit fly. It is usually these types of people who post comments that have little to no bearing on the discussion topic or are filled with the posters personal views on what they feel the situation is. Either way with a name like cynicalandoutspoken I'm sure it won't be long before I am found guilty of doing the same thing you wrote about so I don't take it to heart when someone does it to me.