Silence is golden
By emagyne
@emagyne (664)
United States
January 1, 2008 10:10pm CST
Do you feel that you can do more with silence than you can ever do with words. Especially in the relationship department. My mom always told me that silence kills everything. When me and my boyfriend argue now and he leaves slamming the door, I dont call anymore. I just wait and say nothing. This drives him crazy. I often tell my friends that also. If you dont know what to say, say nothing. Most say its too hard to not call or text over a period of days. To me, it makes them think you are doing something else and they will call you. What do you think? Do you think you can do more with silence than you can ever do with words?
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@bindhusudan (33)
• India
2 Jan 08
I think silence is the worst thing that I have come across. That is hurting people in many ways. I often says to my husband that say whatever comes in your mind. Otherwise it will burst once with a volcano.
@emagyne (664)
• United States
2 Jan 08
True but sometimes out of anger, you can say things that you dont mean later. I think that silence is good sometimes and men do it alot. Have you ever seen a couple argue and the woman is doing most of the talking and the man is sitting there flipping through the tv???? And that makes us sooooo Mad!! I know it does me so I started doing to them what they do to us sometimes. I dont mean to hold everything in but sometimes, you can just keep quiet until later on. Especially once things have cooled off.
