what would you do if you find your wife dont fit you really

You have one life to live. Divorce is a very hard thing especially if you have children. Although, studies do show that parents that are divorced can do well as parents who aren't divorced. Children are very fragile when It comes to that situation. If you can't make it work, then you should be happy too. Everyone deserves to be happy. You deserve your happiness as well. You make a commitment to God, you need to look inside yourself for the answer of what you really want. If you could stand being there. You have to think about what's more important to you and talk to your wife straight up and tell her what's going on.

Any relationship is bound to go through some tough times. I do think that many couples give up too quickly at the first sign of trouble rather than try to work things out. Sometimes it is in working through our problems that we grow closer together. If, however, you have tried and given it your all and still miserable, then I do think divorce may be the answer. Life is too long to be lived unhappily. Also, children do know when their parents are unhappy and some parents are happier apart and the kids will see this.

I've been there that situation its hard but you must except something a wife or husband just a human being so.. he/ she could made mistakes and not perfect. I almost get divorced. we seperated around 2 months and already had one child. during that my husband & I still had contact and suddenly he said to me that he will change and try to be a good husband and father. because I still love him and realize when I made a mistake he ever forgave me also, so I gave him a second chance. and right now we still together have 2 children. and he keep his promise he changes to be a better husband and a father. I only suggest try to fix the problem first if still has love in there but if there's no way out so divorce also an option.

well its just because of this reason i think nowadays marriages are really very tough decision.i think if one thinks about the child then he should live with the wife since a child needs both of them.however in that case things might just be very complicated for the guy.the only solution in between is to make the lady realise her responsibility towards her husband as well as towards her child.the talk should be done in a cool and calm manner.also the guy should try ot understand as to what is the problem between both of them,which made the lady go for such a step.its a mutual step that both of them have to take ofr their better future and as well as thier child.but this solution really needs patience and a lot of effort.and if nothing works then divorce is the only solution,so that atleast both can live thier life happily.

Maybe that even happen to anyone. I just want to ask a question. When a couple take position to get married they really in love or not? did they get maried just for money, business or anything else? If just because that reason really that story will happen soon or later. But if they really in love i think they must think and remember they story when in love.

Your topic is interesting.Anyone married has responsibility to his or her family,realitives.There is no perfect thing in the world.So there are just a few couples feel fit with each other.The marriage with no argument is not a marriage.They should not say goodbye once they can endure each orther. well,the most important is how to always keep the marriage hamoniousa.Once the problem comes out,it will be too late.

been in that situation.... my marriage just didn't work out.. It's been almost 2 years when my life become so critical....of course my first reaction was to settle whatever issues and to continue what we've started...Right now i found myself involved in a relationship that i always wanted...I also want to move on, and to start a new life....