do u like to create frnds.. How much do u trust ur close frnds.. ?

India
January 3, 2008 7:15am CST
frnds r those who share everythin.. but if ur frnds hides u or did somethin without tellin u.. how wil b ur feel? ?
2 responses
@Estina54 (385)
• United States
3 Jan 08
I won't share quite evrything with a friend, no matter how close, any more. The friend might be nice in your presence and then gossip about you when you're not there. He/she will tell others what you thought you're sharing only between you and the friend.
• India
6 Jan 08
oh tats wel yar good n nice policy..
@esteria (396)
• India
3 Jan 08
Well i always like to make friends. I only make friends with people who i have met more than 3 or 4 times or have talked to a lot because only then i know whether to trust somebody or not. I always know if somebody is lying to me or not. so if somebody is lying i know it early enough to know why. Thus i know of all kind of friends i have; There are some who will tell you everything about them (you would like it for some time but after that it fells like the other person is giving you a play by play account of everything). Then there are people who only tell you anything if you ask for it. These i find the best as they do not hide anything from you but they don't go telling you everything they see or do. Then there are friends who keep secrets or hide things from you. But if they do not mean harm to you and are your friends, then they are only hiding something that may hurt you or your feelings or something that is their secret or their friends secret. You should only think that they will never tell your secrets to anybody else also and can be trusted the most. When it is their own secret, they may think it will harm your friendship if they tell or share it and so they hide it. In the end only their goodwill should count.