When you fall in love
By mbsushma
@mbsushma (26)
India
15 responses
@Meljep (1666)
• United States
29 Oct 06
I don't believe you fall in love like you fall down the stairs or fall into a chair. It's not like there is love sitting there and you just fall into it. True love is something that grows over time. You can start out being fascinated with someone or something and after being with that person or object you begin to realize that you would be handicapped if you didn't have that particular person or thing in your life. That person completes you, makes YOU a better person and then in return you want to nurture that person/take care of that person.
@jfa626 (32)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Anybody who says they've fallen in love at first site are lying to you and kidding themself. You fall in lust at first site! It's all about the attraction. After this, the way you get to know the person is what can lead to love. And this thing about falling in love is overrated, that's why there are so many divorces. Some people get caught up in that feeling and they forget about the relationship so when something goes wrong, they run to divorce court because they never got past that lust and never established a true relationship. So when you fall in love there's first lust and don't mistaken this for anything else, and then there's the relationship that you've established with the person (it includes caring, sacrificing, friendship, and romance).
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@toonatoons (3737)
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
it's a totally different experience for everyone. that what makes love unique. you have to experience it to know what it really is. books, poems, love songs can tell us so much, but not to its fullest and deepest extent, which can only be felt by the person in love.
@MothersWorkAtHome (966)
• United States
10 Nov 06
You will know if you fall in love. You wont be having to ask anyone what it feel. As for me, I usually think about the person all of the time whenthey are around I get butterflies... It's been a while since I found a new love though.. lol
@mbsushma (26)
• India
8 Nov 06
I dont believe that, When you truely love a person you would want the person to be as he/she is and not the way you want your love to be, when you do this you will ruin ur relationship and therefore if you understand each other well and cooperate then i will bet that there is no lovely experience other than this in the world.
