to young for naked women?
By dania_elm
@dania_elm (421)
United States
January 5, 2008 7:38pm CST
recently my 9 yr old son approached me about naked women he told me that he cant stop thinking about them i explained to him i felt he was to young for that it was ok that he wondered and that he thought women were hot then he said his "favorite woman is one with a bathing suit on and is wet and has line thing between her breasts" and then asked me if i would get him a poster of that i told him yes and i just went and bought the poster i havent given it to him yet though he is to young or am i being silly?
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
6 Jan 08
Hmm. Well 9 is the right age for all of the looking and wondering to start. Would I buy the poster for my son, personally no. If it is that important, I would tell him to save up his own money and buy it himself. I don't like wall posters like that, I feel they degrade women so my son wouldn't be able to put anything like that up.
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@dania_elm (421)
• United States
6 Jan 08
well i do understand that however i do have a really nice mans chest as the screensaver on my phone lol
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
6 Jan 08
LOL, maybe that is where he gets it from? :o)
I hope you guys have had the talk with him already. We kinda had it with my son (he will be 9 in a few weeks) because he was asking questions. He learned quite a bit but most of it he has made funny joke and silly songs out of.
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@dania_elm (421)
• United States
6 Jan 08
oh and yeah he probably gets it from me and here i thought id be proud if he had my traits!!! i dont think there is anything wrong with finding other ppl attractive after all we all look different for a reason right?
@KisaMommy (132)
• United States
6 Jan 08
I'm sorry, I would have never told a 9 year old that yes you would get him such a poster. Nor would I give it to them, at 9 years old that seems a little strange and I would have a talk with his pediatrician about this and see what he thinks. Now, I don't have a 9 year old boy.. but I have a 7 year old girl, and I'd be just as worried if at 9 she said she liked to see naked men. That would send up major red-flags to me.
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@dania_elm (421)
• United States
6 Jan 08
i did talk to his doc and she said it was normal that he was starting puberty she also said that as long as everything was covered it would be fine he sees more skin than that at the beach and that all boys were curious and then she applauded me having a relationship with him that he could come to me and talk about it
@r0ck_r0ck (1952)
• India
6 Jan 08
well uh 9 yr is ok, but the 'buying poster' thing is no ok i guess, well uh u shld tell him not to indulge in this stuff right now, wat i mean is to tell him the advantage n disadvantages of this things n see how things go on. but oh well thats what i think :P
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
6 Jan 08
Good for you! If the boy is thinking about it, hes old enough to have a poster. This is good parenting! If you had lied to him, he would have gone to the neighbors or even worse his classmates for the answer. Kids are always quicker than Grownups imagine!
@Cafountain (120)
• United States
6 Jan 08
Look at the bright side. He's not gay. Not that it's wrong. But Still as a straight parent, that's one less thing to worry about.
@dania_elm (421)
• United States
6 Jan 08
well yeah thats true naturally i would prefer all my kids to be straight i want lots of grandkids someday lol
if anyof them do end up being gay that is ok also aslong as they are happy with the life they lead its all good
