Is an one night stand okay?
@ironwindow445 (214)
India
January 5, 2008 10:38pm CST
Hey I recently had an one night stand with a girl I picked up from a pub nearby.We really began to share a chemistry the time we began to see each other.
But after that ,when I look back,I cant justify myself.Is an one night stand okay ,guys?What do you say,because,I believe ,true love is not for one night?
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@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
6 Jan 08
I don't think that one night stands are a good thing at all most times. In saying this, I have had one one night stand and now i am married to the person that i had the one night stand with...but that's not usually the case. We just fell in love the moment we saw each other and due to some unfortunate circumstances we lost touch after that one night until a year and a half later. But, seeing him again brought back the love that never left me and we dated a month and married right after that. that doesn't happen to most people though. most of the time, it is just a one night stand and you never see that person again or you do and it's akward. I don't know...I guess it could work for some, it definitely did for me, but most people out for one night stands don't wanna settle down any time soon. Good luck to you and keep us posted. God bless
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@Cafountain (120)
• United States
6 Jan 08
It might be okay, but I don't think it's okay to keep her around. Girls like that have bad habits. It might happen again just not with you. Ultimately it depends on the girl. I don't know her. But in general that's my opinion.
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@ironwindow445 (214)
• India
6 Jan 08
I didnt keep her.She went after that about 11'o' clock the next day.Its just that I began thinking about one-night stands.
@SachseMom (448)
• United States
6 Jan 08
A night stand is never a good idea and no you can not have true love from a one night stand. You felt some chemistry but that is not love you would have to get to know each other better and find out if it could turn into something else. I did have a one night stand one time but I went into saying this is going to be only one night and when he called the next day I just ignored him and he stopped calling!! I know that is mean but I told him from the get go that I just got out of a bad relationship and I was only looking for a one night stand and nothing more than that, so he knew up front.
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@bfarrier1 (2082)
• United States
6 Jan 08
I think your feeling guilty about this one night stand, I think you should get to know someone first but I guess if you had chemistry you couldn't help yourself.Yes true love is not a one night stand! Have a nice day!