Separation
By jenny12
@jenny12 (31)
Canada
January 6, 2008 2:40pm CST
I wont name names but my friend wants to get out of her marriage. I know her husband can be a loving person but when hes upset ( and often times he is) hes like a roaring lion. He would call my friend names.As in names (dont want to write what those words but i do know you can guess).They have a 6 month baby and even the baby gets it. Shes in happy anymore. The last time she called me she wants to leave the house but her husband says if she leaves and take the baby he will press charges against her.I know its scary. Im a mom and who in her right mind will leave the baby?
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2 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
7 Jan 08
i think this guy is abusive one. he is aklso threatning your friend. your friend must take legal action before separating. this guy can do whatever. she can even lodge a complain about the person before separating.
@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
6 Jan 08
I would recommend that you tell your friend to get professional counseling, because no matter what you tell her it is going to back fire in your face, this is a situation where you shouldn't enter, help her find a councilor and even offer to babysit but do not give advise on the leave or stay situation. Honest you can help her more by getting her to help herself than you getting caught up in a family in distress. There are all sorts of counseling available from church to city's if you have any thing similar to community services it will be the place to start, but you personally stay out of the advise giving business, unless you are a professional.
