Real friend or not?
@wunssiebunnies (50)
Philippines
January 6, 2008 8:03pm CST
I have a friend wayback in high school years, we were so close until college we are in the same school and same boarding house. We share lots of fun, sadness, and troubles. After graduating college, she got married and I remain single then but then we still see to it that once 0r thrice a year we have to see each other. One day white we were having fun, she confesses to me that she had one night stand with my " not so BF, but soon to be BF" while we were in our college day, so that means that we were still on a getting to know each other stage when my bestfriend flirted with this guy! This my friend of mine says that she only saved me for this jerk guy, because she loved me very much. How can you assess this? Huh!
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@dania_elm (421)
• United States
7 Jan 08
the fact that she did tell you about it says alot maybe she regrets it or has been feeling weird about keeping something like from you maybe she didnt tell u about it in college because she didnt want to hurt you i would talk it all out with her calmly and find out exactly what she was thinking and go from there
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
7 Jan 08
I would say that this is something in the past and if she is still a good friend to you now, you can forgive her for that. I do not think that a friendship should be throw away because of something that happened back then. I am hoping she has matured since that incident.
@wunssiebunnies (50)
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
I think so and I am hoping that she learned from it, but you it is hard for me to trust her again. This thing is really different, our friendship made out of trust, so if you break it I think its hard to bring that back again, may be time can tell. But then again life has go on, I let her to do what she wants and do mine. Thanks!
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@wunssiebunnies (50)
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
You are really right, past is past that is just a part of the history. But I cannot trust this girl anymore so I let her to be what she wants to be in life. About this guy, the good thing is I discovered the real him, before I make a step to win him back. But you know because of this , I learned a lot, not to trust people saying that they care for me not unless they will kill themselves for me (just kidding) I am more mature now when it comes to sincerity of a person.
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
8 Jan 08
I think that she is still a good friend. She must have taken lots of guts to tell you this. She could have saved you from that guy.
