What to do with the old wedding band?
By sedel1027
@sedel1027 (17846)
Cupertino, California
January 6, 2008 9:08pm CST
For our 1yr anniversary my husband bought me a diamond 1/2 eternity band to replace the plain white gold band that we bought to match my engagement ring. So what should I do with the old plain band? I know I won't be wearing it anymore (it fit poorly with my engagement ring and would pinch my finger). I don't want to sell it, but can not come up with anything to do with the band either.
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11 responses
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
7 Jan 08
How about putting it on a chain and wearing it around your neck perhaps?
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
7 Jan 08
A few people have suggested that and that won't work for me. I am not a jewelery wearing person. I have a lot of piercings and that is my jewelery! I can't even tell you the last time I put on a necklace.
Thanks for the idea.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
7 Jan 08
Not really. I have a wooden starbucks candy box that I keep my jewelery in. I know that sad, but most of my stuff is not expensive and is sterling silver.
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
7 Jan 08
I am not a jewellery person either :) Do you have a jewelry box you can keep it in?
@smwilliams (647)
• United States
7 Jan 08
A lot of people wear the old one on the inside of the finger then the solitare then the new band so you have a triple decker ring...If you dont like that then you can move the old band to the right hand or put it on a necklace and wear it. Or save it to give to your daughter/son if or when you have them to wear when they get married...well the son can give it to his bride..you know what I mean! :) I have more rings than I can deal with right now..LOL...So I keep the wedding rings on and change the right hand out every week or so. I just cant seem to get the hang of wearing rings on any finger but my ring fingers so I have to deal that way! Hope the advice helps!! Lucky you though with the eternity band!! :)
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
7 Jan 08
Thanks for the advice. I use to wear all kinds of plain band rings on my thumbs and on my right hand. I still have all those rings.
Yes, I am lucky! I am very grateful because I told my husband like 2 months after we got married that I wanted that ring for our 1yr anniversary because I was having problems with the plain band fitting properly. I really didn't think I was going to get it either!
We, rather I, got a dirty look though. The day we pick up the ring from getting resized we parked right in front of the jewelery store. Just so happens my husband recently got a new sports car (he hasn't had his own car in 3 years and he just got an awesome job, so he got to get whatever car he wanted, he chose a Subaru Impreza WRX) that had temp tags. We come out of the store, stop to get in the car and I am joking how hubby needs to get me the diamond earrings that are on sale and something else to complete the set (while looking at my ring, which is pretty shiny since they cleaned the engagement ring and the new band). This older couple walks by us as I am saying this, and I got the dirties look from the hubby. It was that "How dare they be young, have a new nice car and be able to afford nice things!" LOL
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
7 Jan 08
Good Luck! Never know what you will get unless you ask.
@smwilliams (647)
• United States
7 Jan 08
LOL...I know right! Like they dont have a sports car in their garage for the winter that SS paid for! Well congrats anyway..Now maybe I should try that on my hubby! :)
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
7 Jan 08
Well, I don't have a daughter and i don't wear necklaces, but thanks for your input. I might end up just putting it in our scrapbook.
@patgalca (18366)
• Orangeville, Ontario
7 Jan 08
I don't understand why you would replace your wedding band with another band. I received an anniversary band on our 10th wedding anniversary this past August. I wear it on my right hand. I would add it to my wedding rings but a) I don't think you could see it very well and b) I already wear my husband's wedding band along with my engagement ring and wedding band. (He is not permitted to wear jewelry at work, so I wear it). I am not much of a jewelry person myself but these are the rings I wear every day because they mean so much to me.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
7 Jan 08
The original white gold band we purchased was just a band to have for the ceremony more than anything else. We were planning on replacing it with something that at least fit better with my engagement ring. A month or so after the ceremony the ring was so uncomfortable I had to stop wearing it. The side of the ring are not flat so I either needed to get a custom band made or find one that dipped down in the middle. Even the replacement doesn't fit perfectly but is 100 times better than the flat band.
I am sure some of my attitude come from my parents. My mom has 4 wedding or anniversary bands. She has her original engagement ring & band set, a plain gold band, a 3 stone anniversary band, and an eternity ring. She changes her rings out depending on what she is doing. I am sure if she did not do that I would view things differently.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
7 Jan 08
I'm of the same mindset as your mother, too. But it's not an influenced thing because my parents never even wore wedding bands. I'm just that way, I'm not good with "forever" items, my mind changes too randomly.
@katisaurus (1038)
• Canada
8 Jan 08
You should get a little silver chain and put the ring on it and where it that way. If the ring looks the way I picture it, it would probably look pretty nice. Or just put it in a ring case and tuck it away somewhere so you don't misplace it. :)
@katisaurus (1038)
• Canada
8 Jan 08
I just read a couple previous posts, I noticed this idea was already said. My apologies. Although like I said, you could just tuck it away as a keepsake. or if you have like a china cabinet or something like that you can put the ring in a glass casing so it's visible and keep it there. :)
@dania_elm (421)
• United States
7 Jan 08
i would keep and just put it up for sentimental reasons if it fits another finger u could wear it there or if u have a daughter or will be having one give it to her for a right hand ring congratulations on ur anniversary i love hearing about those they are so happy!! mine and my hubbys is coming up soon im so excited
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
7 Jan 08
Thanks. I am not a big jewelery person so I don't see myself wearing it anytime soon for any reason. I use to wear all kinds of rings and just got out of that habit. Ya know, I may put it in our wedding book because I am not done that yet.
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• United States
21 Mar 11
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@imadriscoll (2228)
• United States
8 Jan 08
It's obvious from your previous responses that you're not a jewelry person and you don't really want to use it on a different finger or on a chain. You said something about putting it into your wedding book. Another idea might be to put it in a shadow box with other items that you might have saved from your wedding and reception. Perhaps champagne glasses, your veil, other jewelry that you wore on that day or even if you have your bouquet still. That way you have it incase you decide to have more children or if you later change your mind and decide to wear it again. I wouldn't sell it or have it melted down until you're absolutely sure that you don't want it anymore.
@asawako48162 (3321)
• United States
10 Feb 08
I keep all this stuff in safte deposit box at bank..its a keepsake and you can always find a buyer for gold..if you so chose.
@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
8 Jan 08
I might wear it om my right hand. If you don't want to do that, I would just put in my jewelry box for safe keeping.
@kimberlylynn (978)
• United States
8 Jan 08
If you don't wear a ring on your right hand, what about that? I would definitely keep it for sentimental reasons in case you have a daughter to pass it to. It's not worth selling for the money.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
8 Jan 08
even thought it was the band used in our ceremony, I am not really attached to it. We bought it just to have a ring to use and wore it maybe for two months. No, it isn't worth much money. I just have a feeling it is going to end up getting lost in one of our moves. You would be amazed at the amount of jewelery I have lost that way.