Do you still flirt with your husband?
By ky1119
@ky1119 (698)
United States
January 7, 2008 11:42am CST
How long have you been married? Do you still flirt with your husband? I do! :) It makes things fun and keeps it interesting. I send him flirty emails throughout the day from work and I flirt with him at home all the time. Sometimes we'll play games against each other online and flirt that way. I think it's important and it keeps things fresh and keeps our marriage from falling into a rut.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
8 Jan 08
Yes, I still flirt with my husband from time to time. He and I will be married for 13 years next month (and we were together for 3 years before we got married). I believe it's important to flirt with each other every now and then to keep that spark alive. :)
How long have you been married to your husband ky1119?
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
7 Jan 08
I don't know how to flirt. I never flirted, never learned, I guess.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
7 Jan 08
No, I just decided to post in married thread for no reason...
I was never a "pretty girl", I never attracted men, so I never had cause to learn the whole "flirt" thing. I'm a straight-talk kind of person. I met my husband online and we never really did the "dating" thing. So I've never flirted or dated, so I really don't know what goes in in either.
@imadriscoll (2228)
• United States
8 Jan 08
Gloom, do you think that your husband flirts with you? Or does that sort of thing turn you both off?
@imadriscoll (2228)
• United States
7 Jan 08
I love flirting with my husband. Everything from playing hard to get, from tickling to wrestling. We love each other and we're best friends ... but without the flirting things would get boring like you said. I don't send flirty emails, because it would be a miracle for him to actually check his email. But, I tell him that he's the sexiest man I know and that I desire him completely. The great part is that it's true!
@cosylvia (399)
• China
8 Jan 08
no,i have no hubby,just the boyfriend.i never flirt with him,LOL...i dont know how to keep the relationship fresh......happy new year
@HelpAlways (62)
• India
8 Jan 08
any relationship needs to be worked on. be it friends, parent children, relatives or to that effect husband and wife. yes it is important to work onto the relationship. so if this requires romance being a couple hen need to keep the light on...
@emarie (5442)
• United States
8 Jan 08
sometimes, when I get the chance. Its not major or anything because I don't think I even flirted that much when we met. But its fun sometimes. Haven't tried anything major like actually going out into public and meeting each other in a bar or something, but I like how it is now.
@biggerb (2024)
• India
8 Jan 08
That sounds very interesting,you are right it does keep things fresh.Anyway I dont.It must be fun.Enjoy it.I think its in your hands to keep things going instead of falling into a rut and moaning.
@rosaflorence (1924)
• United States
8 Jan 08
I still flirt with my husband, it makes things interesting and keeps the love more alive. We often do what you do and send each other text messages or emails throughout the day. My husband also flirts with me when we go out somewhere which is hardly never due to us having five children between us. Flirting shouldn't end as soon as you say your vowels, you should flirt with your spouse as often as you can so that they will know that you still admire them and are still attracted to them.
@milkfish (371)
• Philippines
8 Jan 08
I still do, and I've been married for 4 years already. It adds excitement to the relationship, keeps the fire burning. Sometimes we get too busy with domestic concerns (bills, kids, etc) and we forgot to nurture the relationship.