What do you think is the proper time to get married?

Philippines
January 8, 2008 6:22pm CST
All I know is that when getting married you should be emotionally stable and of course you have that deep love for each other. I personally think that marrying is a very big step to take in life and no one should ever take it for granted or treat it as a tiny situation only. What else do you think couples need before they get married?
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• United States
9 Jan 08
You need to be absolutely sure it's what you really want, and it helps, but it's not a requirement, to be pretty financially stable so you can prevent a lot of fights about money after you get married. You should be well grounded too, know what you want, and be pretty certain about where you're going to live, and how you're going to get that perfect place, etc.
• Philippines
9 Jan 08
Yes if I'm going to be married I'll really make sure that I want to get married not just for the sake of being married but because I love that person and we could start our life together, being emotionally stable. Moeny will come later just as long as you two help each other in work and in earning money for your bright future. thanks!
@subha12 (18441)
• India
9 Jan 08
I think marriage is a big step in life if not biggestr. One should only marry when he/she is mentally, financially ready for it. Don't get married for the sake of getting married. So there is no proper time that i guess in terms of age. But when one is prepared for it.
• Philippines
9 Jan 08
Yes, one should be ready for marriage. You just know when you are. No one can tell you :) Thanks!
• United States
9 Jan 08
Well, my husband and I got married very quickly. We met in September of '06 and got married in June of '07. There was an instant connection and you will know when the time is right to get married. It helped a lot that we lived with each other before getting married so we knew how we both were prior to deciding whether or not to get married. There really is no set time to get married, though. You'll feel it in your gut.
• Philippines
9 Jan 08
thanks! I guess it is :)
@musicman6 (2407)
• United States
9 Jan 08
In my personal experience, one needs to know that your love is going to be as good when the times are bad, because this is what breaks a lot of couples up!
• Philippines
9 Jan 08
I've heard quite a lot of people who get divorce because they can't handle problems when it comes between the two of them. I guess you're right, they have to know that they are ready to handle problems and that it can't shake their love for each other when it comes!
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
14 Jan 08
In the last 30 years people don't take marriage very seriously. They don't take it as a commitment. I have some girlfriends that have been married several times. One of them was on her sixth marriage, and she was only 40 years old. I now have not seen her for the last ten years so I don't know if she is still with her husband or if she has moved on and married someone else. Or someones else. Who knows in the last ten years she may have gone through even more husbands. I have been married for the second time, ten years ago and I am still with my hubby. My first marriage didn't work out because I don't think my husband was really ready for a life long relationship. He screwed around on me several times and I finally gave up on him. My husband now, was married twice before me. One lasted less than a year and one lasted 16 years, and now me for the last 10 years.
@gem170104 (172)
9 Jan 08
Me and my fiance had been together 3 and a half years and lived together for 2 of those when he proposed and we are getting married in 2010, so we will have been together a fair while when we get married, we are young though so that is a good thing it means that you are stable and aware of each others annoying habits having lived together before marrying, but it depends on the relationship, a family member of mine got engaged after 3 months and married 2 years later and the marriage only lasted 1 and a half years, but my aunty was married within 6 months and 30 years later is still married. It completely depends on the situation and how you feel as a couple.