Should pregnant girls go to public schools?
By charmedone
@charmedone (593)
United States
36 responses
@charmedone (593)
• United States
30 Oct 06
I agree I got pregnant at 16 and stayed in my regular school. The man who got me pregnant had been out of school for a while. But I do feel like if the girl has to leave school and go somewhere else that the guy who got her pregnant should have to also.
@sexysilver (928)
• United States
30 Oct 06
If she wishes to still attend public school - LET HER!!! I think other student would actually benefit from her showing them that she is still getting her education and making somrthing of herself even though she's pregnant.
@Akissej83 (41)
• United States
30 Oct 06
There is no reason a girl should be banned from attending a public school just because she is pregant. If she gets banned so should he! She did not get herself pregant.
Isn't illegal to discriminate against someone because of a medical condition. If you tell a woman she can not attend PUBLIC school because she is pregant, THAT is discrimination.
Also, this could help the other students understand that it can happen to thier friends and to them and may be everyone would be a little more caution the next...
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
29 Oct 06
Pregnant teen girls should be allowed to attend public school. After all, teenage fathers are not banned from school. I used to work in a home for unwed moms, ages 12 to 20, and these girls were very afraid, intimidated, and angry at having been "put away".
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@charmedone (593)
• United States
30 Oct 06
I agree they should not be made to feel isolated. They made a mistake but they still should be treated like any other teen. I got pregnant at 16 and I went to public school just like everyone else. Me being pregnant had nothing to do with my education or any one elses.
@4monsters4me (2569)
• United States
30 Oct 06
I went to an all girl Catholic high school and one of my friends ended up pregnant our senior year. She was only 16. It was a very liberal school (yes there is such a thing as a liberal Catholic) and she was not made to leave. She missed a lot of school because of the pregnancy though. She was in and out of the hospital and had her baby in December. We graduated in June and her little girl was there.
I don't think girls should be forced to switch schools if they get pregnant, unless they want to go to special school for teen moms. Forcing someone to do something isn't going to help them, if you ask me. They will just be resentful and not want to ask for help when they need it.
My best friend also got pregnant her senior year of high school (different all-girl Catholic school). But she didn't tell anyone until after graduation. It was a hard year for her trying to keep it a secret, especially with the morning sickness. She had finally told her mom and a couple weeks later got pre-eclampsia and ended up having her daughter 2 months early.
Her parents supported her in every way they could. She is now 24, has graduated college and has a job teaching and is going back to school to get another degree. She has a loving boyfriend (not the father of her daughter) and many friends that help her out. She babysat all the time she was going to night school for spending cash (her parents provided housing and food for her and her baby while she was in school). She is awesome. Her daughter and my daughter are best friends now.
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@charmedone (593)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Thats a very nice story thanks for your response. I think it is the girls descion and her right to go to public school. I went to public school while I was pregnant when I was 16. I don't think a girl should be asked to leave her school just b/c of pregnancy.
@mommygirlX4 (675)
• United States
30 Oct 06
i got pregnant when I was 15. I stayed in public school except for the the month around the time I had my baby, at that time I had a teacher come to my house. My baby was born when I was 16. I graduated when I was 17 and my baby was 19 months old. No one looked at me funny. Everyone was excited about the baby.
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@charmedone (593)
• United States
30 Oct 06
I got pregnant at 16 and I too stayed at my public school. I had my son over the summer and went back when school started back. No one treated my different, some people talked but my firends were very supportive. All my friends were excited about the baby and had a bet going if it was a girl or boy.
@lilbabyru (101)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Well i am pregnant and i go to a all girls school...well its like a second chance school..and the school you can bring you babies..its for pregnant girls..and girls that already have babies that disnt get there diploma*s yet
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@charmedone (593)
• United States
30 Oct 06
I got pregnant when I was 16 and went all but 1month of my pregnancy to a regular high school. I had my son over the summer and then went back to school a month later. I think it should be the girls choice rather she feels comfortable going to her regular school. I don't think she should be forced to go to a different school.
@gotta_go65 (19)
• United States
30 Oct 06
speaking as a been there done that i had at least 4 girls not including me whom were pregnant in high school . i stayed and i wasnt ashamed at all . none of us were .
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@charmedone (593)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Yes I also had 3 other friends besides myself who was pregnant in high school. We were not ashamed either, what was done was done and I have never been ashamed of my child.
@claudia413 (4280)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Pregnant teenage girls should be allowed to attend public school; or, if they prefer, go to a private school or be homeschooled. It should be their choice...whichever way is best for them to continue their education. Good for you for continuing yours...here's a hand for your efforts.
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@candaceb87 (1362)
• Canada
29 Oct 06
i was in a public school when i was pregnant with both of my children and i don't think that it would be right to stop someone who is pregnant from going to a public school. no one made fun of me and teased me people are more accepting nowadays
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Yes, people are more accepting now, and some schools have special programs for pregnant girls.
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@angeliamj (632)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Why in the world shouldn't pregnant teen girls be able to go to public school??? I mean that's like saying let's put all the kids who have ADHD in a seperate school or homeschool. Or let's be even more unrealistic....let's send the cheerleaders to one school and the drama kids to another. I know not the same, but what would the point be. They're pregnant, they're not lepers. What's pulling them out going to other than make one more unwed mother on welfare.
@pumpkinjam (8754)
• United Kingdom
30 Oct 06
I think it would be a good thing for her to stay in whatever school she's in. She deserves to continue her education. People do far worse things than get pregnant and stay at the same school.
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@kwilson30 (104)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Yeah, the guys who get them pregnant do
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@cajunmomma (624)
• United States
29 Oct 06
I think that it should be up to the girl who is pregnant. After all it is her education and life not the schools. If the girl who is pregnant gets banned then the boy who did it should be too. He is a risk at the possibility at getting another girl pregnant. If the girl wants to go to a private school or home for preg. girls then that should be her decision.
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@nmw2005 (1197)
• United States
29 Oct 06
I think that is she wants to stay in public school, why not. As long as she know that kids will be talking. There may be another side to her attend school. What about being the poster child for all actions have a consequence. Think she may even scare clasmates?
@alainnmiog (660)
• United States
29 Oct 06
I think it should be up to the girl. If she wants to stay in public school, I see no problem with it. Why should she have to leave? I like what another poster asked: Is the boy who got knocked her up going to be banned from school, too??
@kesfylstra (1868)
• United States
29 Oct 06
I agree it should be the girls decision. If I had gotten pregnant in high school, I would have high-tailed it out of there, but I went to a conservative private school. If the girl is comfortable in her school, she should be welcome to stay. If she is uncomfortable, there should be a good alternative available. I think the main fear is that others would copy her behavior, but I think probably just talking to her would scare them out of that!
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