torn between two lovers...help!!!

@kaie01 (15)
Philippines
January 9, 2008 9:02pm CST
what would you do if you have two suitors? one is your ex-boyfriend and the other one, was the person that you have liked from the start, but he was too afraid to tell you that he had the same feelings for you. it's really hard to make a decision. they both make me feel special and i really cannot decide who i like better. and they are both my officemates. help pls?!!
1 response
@teecee18 (18)
• United States
10 Jan 08
First, I don't recommend dating people in your office...let alone two people. That could create serious drama for you. But I have been in that situation where I had to choose between two people. In that case I just followed my heart. Time will always tell and it often makes the decision for you. Often times one or the other will eliminate themselves, making the decision easier for you. Whatever you do, don't make either of them your boyfriend until the other is out of the picture. This will only complicate the situation more. Give it some time and the choice will become clear. Don't rush it!
@kaie01 (15)
• Philippines
10 Jan 08
yeah, i know that. it's really complicated right now. thanks for the advice!