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Just end it. I was also in the same situation as yours. My ex was from Olongapo and I'm from Caloocan. At first, we have a good communication through chat, text and calls. We even see each other once or twice a month. It's either I'll go in his place, vice versa. But as time goes by, our regular communication starts to get weaker, i don't know why. Later, I found out that he was cheating on me, and after that, I told him (thru text) why did he do that, he just answered me with a very nice answer (opposite of it) with matching some bad words in it. If it's legal to kill, I should have killed him right away when he told me that. Good thing I followed my instinct.

Don't ever waste your time looking for answers in your queries. Constant communication should be kept especially in your case, a long distance relationship. If your partner didn't keep that then that just means he dumped you. I know you're just loving. But girl, it's very important to love yourself first. Maybe love just didn't land to both of your hearts. Perhaps it is on you, but how about on your partner? Remember that it takes two to tango. I believe as well that love is patient and kind. But becoming a martyr in a relationship not worth fighting for is being an irrational individual. Weigh everything wisely my friend. The decision lies in you.

take wisdom pills. b watchful of him

may i ask, where is he in mindanao? im from mindanao too, in general santos city.. how about you?

Love is not enough, especially if it's not equal from both sides. Distance can either make the heart grow fonder or weaker, and in your situation it seems that you bf is the type that is 'outta sight, outta mind'. My advice is to put yourself out of you misery by ending it. You will be much happier and you deserve a bf that WANTS to be with you and wants to talk to you. I was in a similar situation.. my ex was in Florida (he was in the navy) and I was living in Toronto. We did long distance and one day I just stopped getting calls from him and he stopped replying to my emails. Finally he worked up the guts to tell me that he was afraid to talk to me because he had cheated on me. I ended it there.. a real relationship is of the heart AND body, not just body.