Jealousy Necessary?

Haha no need to be jealous ... we both know she would never do that to you lol and you sHOULD know that he wouldn't eitherrr

yes sometimes necesarry but sometimes no its diff'rent way to make jealous at all. maintaining such mental attitude can free a person from much suffering as well as from falling to ruin.

I think that the fact that he was out with a friend of yours probably made the situation worse. If the two of you aren't dating anymore though, it is probably best to move on to someone that is gonna care about you and love you the way you need to be loved. I think it's quite common though, after a break up so short, to get jealous at times if you still have feelings for this person. Is this ex that is "in love with you" the same one you are talking about who went out with your friend? If so, I would probably just say move on and get on with your own life. You don't need that on again off again situation...it only builds up resentment and anger and hurt that cannot easily be broken. Good luck to you though and keep us posted on how things are going. God bless

Do you think maybe he went out with this person just to try to make you jealous. I know how you feel with the jealous feeling. I broke up with my boyfriend and when I found out some so called friends were trying to set him up with someone else I felt funny and jealous. Even though I'd been the one to break it off I still had feelings for him but we had some relationship problems the worst one being he couldn't save and wasn't paying his bills and was expecting me to pay for everything. Yes we are currently back together but things are pretty much back to the way they were a couple of months back. But what I don't understand is why do we feel jealous when we are the ones to break off the relationship? I really don't get it and gosh it's frustrating. If we don't want a relationship with them then we really need to let them move on to find someone who does want a relationship with them.