Is he the one already?

@bianx21 (339)
Philippines
January 10, 2008 10:44pm CST
Are you sure if you're boyfriend right now will be your husband in the future?I know many of you will say yes,even I would say so...But,I've had some boyfriends before and I also had this feeling that I will end up with them,but,obviously,I did not (and it's ok 'cause I'm happy right now!)...So,how do you tell when he's the one already?
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
1 Mar 08
All I can say is: Cross the Bridge when you get there. There's no sense expecting too much from someone when sooner or later you realize you're not for him or he/she isn't for you. Many relationships start off a blast and end up dirty because of these expectations which are often not realized. I say, forget the expectations and just enjoy the feeling of having someone close to your heart. This is what I do. I love my bf so much and he loves me too. But instead of thinking or worrying if we are to be. I just enjoy ourselves. I always start the day off thinking it's the last day for us. Yeah, quite weird but when I come to think of it, I minimize my childishness and immaturity and really see his worth everyday. I never miss up the chance of expressing my feelings for him (well not to the point that he'll be covered with sugar) but the point of exactly being myself for him to know. When I'm angry, I don't hide it from him, I tell him I'm upset and I want him to listen. When I'm happy, I show it to him. Well, as always, there's no perfect formula for relationships. But I dare say, stop worrying and praying that you had finally found that someone. Instead, be that someone for him/her. Jokingly, I always tell my friends. If he is to leave me now, I would always want to be remembered as THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY. And he'll regret he left me, for as long as he lives. ;) It takes a lot of prayers to land the one for you. As we all know, marriage is a VOCATION, and will not always be a VACATION.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
1 Mar 08
I dont know there are a lot of things that I want to discover about him..Sometimes I do wish that he is the one but well lets see.
• Philippines
24 Jan 08
I think only God can answer that.Even married couples split up after several years of being hooked up together.
• Philippines
10 Feb 08
i hope he's already the one God gave me to me.. i dont want to be with someone else except him.. i love him so much that no words in the dictionary could ever define or explain how i feel for him.. i just hope and pray that he'll b mine forever..