Anyone else feel like they get the short end of the stick?

They won't even let me have the stick at all. They're afraid I'll WACK them with it. I'm easy going & let things slide untill someone crosses the line then they find themselves staring down the barrel of a cannon. Once I decide it's time to fight things get real ugly real quick.

lmao! sounds like your having a bad day angel, we all have bad days or weeks or months or ywears... lol! i wish you all the best and share with you these words. "obstacles are just what you see when you take your eyes off the goal" "Your life is what YOU make it" I dont know who said these quotes, lol but they sunk in and i try to live my life with these words in mind EVERYDAY. It is up to you to make the most out of life, it is much easier if you try to look on the brightside and

I don't like being on that short end of the bargain, it's stressful already by just thinking about it. In most times, I just look for some other ways where I can complete my own delas first before I worry about them. I guess I simply don't allow them to pass all of it and put 'em all over my shoulder. I worry of myself first, before worrying other's problems. But if it has something to do with work, I'll go look out for solutions even if it means that I have to use every resources that I can pull out.

I had a problem getting the news last & late for years, so I finally told them once that I couldn't do that, I had made other plans (I had not.) That I needed to know something enough ahead of time so that I could make plans. I picked this one so as to be as inconvienent as possible to the planners so that they couldn't actually do exactly what they wanted to do because I wasn't there. I'm more than willing to go along with things, if I have enough forwarning, so now the family includes me early on. I have started to feel a bit taken advantage of by my roomie's family too. She was unhappy with her brother's behavior over Thanksgiving and I just flat told her to tell her folks that if they really wanted her out at their place, they had to both get her and bring her home, I would not be able to come out this year. Well, they did arrange it and her brother was on better behavior too, but only because she insisted that he had to be if they wanted her to come.

I feel that way all the time. Just tonight I went to MCDonalds and got stuck behind a guy ordering the whole store. It was 11 at night. So it took fooooreeever. Anytime I get in a check out line something breaks down, they need a price check etc. So I know how you feel. I try to pick my battles wisely until it overflows and I burst.

I pick my battles. Sometimes the injustice I receive is not worth the trouble it takes to fix it. If I get the short end of the stick and it's bad or unjust, I'll say something if it's a huge problem. But if it's a simple thing like not getting enough fries in my Happy Meal, then I'll just let it go. No sense in arguing.