What do you feel when your lover tell you that you are fatter ?

this has never happen to me my hubby always tells me that I am sexy I am the one who puts myself down, but if it was to happen I think I would just respond with I know lets work out togehter. Something like this is not worth arguing over!!

Ha Ha, if my husband told me i was getting fat,i would tell him to go look in the mirror..He has gained weight i am the same size i was when i met him...Sometimes i have a "fat" day like all women do and i will say 'Oh i feel so fat" and my hubby says your not fat..I try to watch my weight but really i have been this same size for years,so i do not think i will ever get fat..I may gain a couple of pounds but i just end up losing it,si my weight is not a problem for me...If you hubby or lover tells you that you are fatter,then tell him yes i know and so are you..Lol

Well,to me it depends on how he tells you! There is a polite way, and then there is a rude way! And you should take it as constructive criticism!

Sorry, I cannot help you with this one, as that has never happened. It is more like eat, eat, eat!

Hmm I would be heart broken...he always tells me I look good even though I look like crap...I asked him why he always tells me I look good he said because in his eyes all he sees is the person he married and love very much and no one nor thing can change his view of me because unlike others he sees me from within...very sweet...he loves getting brownie points...

oh,oppositely my girlfriend think I'll be better if I become a little fatter. according to your situation,if I in the future become too fatter and she tell me directly I think I will consider it seriously.After all,it's the key word.