sincerity of heart / myLot

Philippines

January 12, 2008 11:42am CST

I'm talking about the same guy who appeared in my life and then suddenly disappeared for almost one month and then appeared again. So the last time went out together, he did something different. He accompanied me until I reached home and he kissed my left ear. The following day he still texted me. Then the next day, it was his birthday so I invited him for a dinner but he said he's not available yet because he has a family affair. So it was okay for me but then, he never texted. I don't know if he's really sincere. Can a guy's love be measured by how often he remembers you? I'm really confused because I don't want to be hurt in the end. So if he's just fooling around, I'd rather stop going out with him because I'm wasting my time.

1 response

noyida

@noyida (795)

• Singapore

14 Jan 08

First of All, dont get yourself confused. Ask yourself, if he ever mention that you are his gerl? Do he ever asked to be serious with you or to acknowledge each other as his or her couple. Doesnt mean he went out with you and sent you home or give you a goodbye kiss, you are someone special to him or he is your special someone. Guys, sometimes, can be very gentlemen like when they feel like it, opps, sorry guys,; as in your case, probably, he out of the blue remember you and contacted you again. Then ask you out and texting you to feel your existance. Then if you dont mean anything to them, or they dont really have that much interest in you, they just would forget to good behaviour to you like calling you everyday. They are those species who wont waste time if they really dont have any eye on you. If you really have a heart or any feeling for this guy, my advise is Dont waste your time. He is not interested. He just regard you as an ordinary friend. Better dont wait if you really dont want to get hurt, open your mind, heart and eye for someone new. He is not worth the wait. Good luck!

@ellyboy123 (54)

• Philippines

14 Jan 08

Oh thank you so much. I am never experienced in terms of dealing with guys. When we go out together, he's very sweet. Actually, the second time we dated, he'd been asking so many questions like my favorite color, food, etc. and then he asked me if I know 'getting to know' and then I said I know. But he never told me if he's courting me but whenever we see couples eating together and sitting beside each other,he would tell me that they're weird and that's why he's sitting in front of me and not beside me. I don't want to assume really something--that he's got a feeling for me unless he really tells me. Thank you so much for the advices.