When everything goes wrong

lst year was bad had my car stolen,i got another car had an accident totaled my car.got another car my husband had an accident few moths later totalled it. lost my job had a dealth in the family. things have got to get better.they say it gets worse before it gets better. no more cant take no more!!!!!!!!!

Hello youdontsay, I understand how it feels when everything seems to be wrong for you. I had my tough time before. When it happens, it is really tough but I always tell myself that it is going to be over soon. It is just a temporary and my life will be good in future. I am not too sure sometimes whether I am right or wrong about it, but I always hope something good will happen later. At least it keeps me moving forward and manage to survive the tough times.

Just keep trying to remember every black cloud has a silver lining. I admit sometimes it seems never ending but eventually it does and things will brighten up again. Best of luck through this bad patch. (Been there done that!)

i always try to be positive and tell myself it can't get any worse, thats not always the case though and like you it usually does... Just try and smile, even if its behind gritted teeth. Think of something nice that makes you smile..

I understand completely your sentiments. I've been through processions of disasters lately and all I did to keep me on my feet is pray and think positively. With the way you're thinking I can tell you are very optimistic too and I'm sure you are strong so you'll eventually get out of the obstacles you're experiencing right now. good luck to you and I hope that you'll get through the rough spots soon.

When situations become very difficult I use mind control to raise me up again. I just think that if I can endure it then maybe it will be over soon or I'll be stronger. It's hard because it can get very frustrating sometimes Id feel so depressed like I want to give up and just let the rope go. But if I do that everything will just become worst. So what I do is that I just do my thing, pray and try to adjust to the situation. I tried to suppress my mind about not thinking about problems before. I don't face it or do something about it. I just tried to be relax about it and went with the flow but in the end I ended up facing my problems anyway. Dealt with them and eventually eliminated them one at a time. But problems will keep on happening it's part of our lives but the good thing about it is that we learn from it and we become stronger. We need to also connect with those that can giv us moral supports and "count our blessings'. Hope you are feeling better now, since it has been 5 years.