rejecting??

Hi princereineir, welcome to mylot and have a happy myloting. Well, for the first question my response is yes ofcourse why not? If people are into a confusion stage they need to think about what they want really and so make their choice. After that I think that all they need is live their choice and be happy. What you mean about teenagers? Do you love a teenager? Or what? It I really can't understand but anyway about priorities the only important priority is be happy. And don't worry about what people think about you because always some people think bad things about the others no matter if they are bi or not. Be respectable is about have dignity not about your choice of love. Ours days the society have open mind and all persons can be happies no matter what they are or the choices they make. Have a nice day and welcome.

I'm not sure I understand all of what you're saying here, but I'll try. When you say "Is it justifiable to have a stable life whoever you are?" I have to say, "Yes, of course." It is true there are many things that still need to be worked out in the world. There will always be people who are still struggling in some way, and helping them in whatever way we can is important. However, living the type of life we choose is also important. No one should have to live their lives ONLY for other people, and thus finding our own stablity and happiness is of course something we should all search for... whatever that means to us personally. My happy lifestyle might not be the same as the one of the person next to me. As for being respectable, I think it's over-rated. *laughs* Seriously, I think there isn't really much you can do about whether others see you as respectable or not. There are always going to be people who hate you for stupid reasons, or who choose to believe that your life is "sinful", "deviant", or "just plain wrong". We do whatever we can to try to get proper legal rights, try to make ourselves safe, and then try not to worry about the rest.