Do you sometimes remember the person you wanted to forget will all your heart?

Two years ago I had to push myself to forget a boy who used to be my friend. He was manipulated from a girl I know well and still can't explain how come he started hating me without any reason. It felt like I disposed from all feelings and whenever I came across him I didn;t feel a thing, it was like he part of the scenery. I remember him from now and then and I think it's quite normal because the past can't be deleted. Today I have to do this with another one, who turned out to be exactly who I thought he would be. The very same girl is involved, although this time I won't forgive her no matter I'm still polite with her. As for him - he's now left in the past.

i don't care about cheating and i don't agree with this mass hysteria. this is a mass hysteria. you should feel if somebody cares about you or treats you like an easy conquest. the goal is a steady relationship, not someone who is not cheating but does not let me have some time by myself!!! too much faithfulness suffocates me! i don't care where he's going and i don't treat him like a piece of meat!

I've realized that the more I try to forget someone it is harder. The more effort I put in forgetting, the more I remember things. The only way out (for me) is to not bother and get on with my life by doing something else that interests me and I slowly forget. And then I don't remember till someone brings up the name and if it's been a while, I don't remember all the details either. Earlier I used to dwell on the memories and keep thinking I have to forget....that never worked. Keeping myself busy so that I had no time to remember is what worked for me.

I have a hard time forgeting the past myself. I wish I could erase it but that is easier said then done that's for sure.

the only person who can TOTALLY forget someone is a person with amnesia. ^__^;; i was cheated by a guy before and i wanted so badly to erase him totally from my mind because it hurt so much. but the more i tried to forget him, the more i remember him. so i just lived my life the way it used to be when he hasn't appeared in my life. there were times that i did forget him but there are times too that he would just popped inside my mind. its been years now and i still haven't completely forgotten about him. the thing i have forgotten is the feelings. its like the song "i remember the boy, but i don't remember the feeling anymore.." ^__^ i guess it will always be just like that because he had been a part of my life before. ^__^

well i think its really tough to say that one can erase the memory.for me i think its not possible.many a times when i am alone i do remember those things and i really dont think that there is any harm in doing so since good memories are there for one to cherish.i am very happy with my partner.thought memories do come in mind but just hate the person.well i am person who wants to live in present.