Have you Ever........

@neelygal (1022)
Bahamas
January 14, 2008 10:33am CST
Have you ever been in a abusive relationship before?were you the one that was being abused or were you the one that was doing the abusing?How did it make you feel?How did you get out of it?Are you still in an abusive relationship?
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
14 Jan 08
I have never been in a physically abusing relationship but my father mentally and emotionally abused me, and the way I got out was to get pregnant, go to an unwed mother's home, give up the baby, and stay at a friend's house. The man of the house was a war buddy of my father, so he and his wife let me stay at their house, I helped with the children, and I got welfare until I found a job, and paid a little for board, then I gradually went on my own. If my father had been nicer, I would not have made that many mistakes. I am married now, happy.
@neelygal (1022)
• Bahamas
14 Jan 08
Im so sorry you had to go through that I cant even imagine being a child and living with that.Im happy that you got through it and moved on with your life and seem happy now.All the best to you.
@jetta12 (94)
• United States
14 Jan 08
Yep,but I got him off of me.Most of them are cowards,but if you let them know that you will not take these beating, call police ,put their butts in jail,put a keep away order on them and then get you something to make sure they obey the order off put em down then you be at peace.But I was a fighter,and fight I did,so he left me along and I left his butt.