It's so Complicating.......
By tinkerbell07
@tinkerbell07 (36)
United States
January 14, 2008 10:17pm CST
So I met the guy I'm currently talking to 5 years ago. He introduced himself only after tripping me and it was a love at first site kind of thing. He was at the time dating someone I knew and she treated him really badly. Well my sophmore year his senior year he moved and had to transfer to a different school and we kinda quit talking. I loved him a lot tho so I wrote him a letter and sent it to him. He got it and we started talking again. He acted like he wanted to date but he also seemed like he was sendin mixed signals. this has been goin on off and on since then. And he'll tell some people we are together and he'll tell others we're not. And we act like we're dating. Thats what makes the whole thing real bad. Like we go out on dates, hug, kiss, tell each other i love you, etc. We've both met each others parents, we do family functions together, and we're always together. He says he wants us to be together but won't actually ask me out. I know he's scared of commitment because of his last relationship. But i'm not like her and i'd thought he'd figure that out by now. I'm just so confused.
2 responses
@graedragon (329)
• United States
15 Jan 08
relationships can be so confusing at times. It sound like he really likes and cares about.
You may need to bring this subject up to him. Ask him what it is he wants out of the relationship. If this is really bothering you then you need to find out. If you don't it will just keep going that way.
@tinkerbell07 (36)
• United States
15 Jan 08
We have discussed it. Several times. And he says he wants to be with me and he does want to see us married with kids later down the road. but he won't make the move to make that happen.
@graedragon (329)
• United States
15 Jan 08
I don't know what else to tell you. You've already done evrything I suggested. You see if it was me I would leave him to show him what he would be missing but THAT'S ME. I hope someone else here can give you some more advice on this.
@tinkerbell07 (36)
• United States
15 Jan 08
thanks for ur advice. we'll see wut happens and i'll keep u updated
@fredgame (1260)
• China
15 Jan 08
well, tinkerbell07, i think you're doing what is expected of you and as time goes on he'll come to reslise that you're not like his first experience of that girl and hope you'll really prove him wrong if he thinks you of the same calibre.
i think continue to be of the real person that you're and let him feel that you're different from the first girl and he comes to accept you totally, it'll be wonderful for both of you. good luck.
