Adoption or biological?

I would say adoption is better....

I'm pregnant now! I believe that if you adopt a kid you will love him or her as if he or she were your own that's a reason why people adopt. But also I want my own kid. I wanted to experiance pregnancy and have a baby. This is my first pregnancy and to tell you the truth I'm seriously thinking of having my tubes tied and if I want any more kids I'll adopt I don't know if my doctor will do it. There are thousands of kids out there without families and in the future when I get my life together I want to help a child out and have him or her grow up in a loving enviroment instead of in a foster home moving from family to family!

i would have to agree i think once i get my life on track meaning once iget my ged a good decent job and buy my own house i will adopt 1 or 2

Parenthood...at its core are things like love, giving, caring, nurturing, mentoring, grooming, instilling a value system, giving an upbringing. Parenthood in my opinion is not a matter of preference. It is a responsibility one takes for another life. Be it one that you biologically bring into this world, or one that you adopt into your own. I have felt many times, that people don't see parenthood in this light enough. If you are going to be a good parent, it shouldn't matter to you whether the child was biological or adopted. That is my personal opinion, subject to disagreement by others, but i believe so.