Please help give an advice for my friend....

She found someone else.. is what that suggests! Maybe I'm a bit blunt, but thats what that is. If the parents aren't worried then they know their baby has figured out that marriage was not the right move for her at that moment. Hinting they know where she is, by saying she can do as she wants when she wants! Maybe he could hire a private investigator to help set his mind at ease. I know that would be a very tough situation to experience!

I think, it does not matter, what happened to her. Based on the information, we have, she is voluntarly broke the relationship, and intentionally disconnected all available means of contact. It might be no much use, even if he finds her. I would say, he is happy that this happened before wedding and not after. He saved a lot of nerves, emotions, and money. I know, it is painful at the moment, but he should get over with and step to the new period of the life... May be, the day she left was his luckiest day?

I think the girl was palying with this guy. she has made it just like fun. How she can just dissapper from the show when it was to happen? I think legally there is little to do if they are not registered the marriage yet. But the guy should also move on. There is no point in wasr=ting time, spirit and money on her.

Well if that's a case of cold feet, it's a major one. Obviously she doesn't want to be found, for whatever reason. And obviously her parents know where she has gone, but sounds like they might not agree with whatever decision she has made. I would be a little on the suspicous side, wondering if she met someone else or has been cheating on him for sometime now. Best advice to him, and it's not easy, move on with his life, don't sit around waiting for the phone to ring, and if she did show back up, she would have a lot of explaining to do before he should even consider getting back together with her.

I really can't tell what has happened to her, I can only take wild guesses. 1. Her ex-boyfriend is back in town. 2. the man's rich ex-girlfriend is in town and threatened to spoil the wedding or gave her a bunch of $ and a plane ticket to wherever she pleases. 3. She discovers that the fiancee is having an affair or has impregnanted another woman. 4. The parents did not approve the marriage so they forced her to hide or run away. WHAT HE SHOULD DO? 1. Give her time to heal and wait to see if she is going to show up and explain 2.If he is daring, he can marry another woman ASAP and on the wedding day. 3. Contact private detectives to look for her. 4. Forget about her, cry over spilt milk and move on. But all in all, she owes the guy a good explanation.

I am sorry this happend to your friend. No one can really say what is going on in her head or heart. I know it must have been a shock. And painful too. But there is a small silver lining. This happend before he got married. Before there may have been children involved, afew years down the road. I suggest instead of wondering what happend and worrying over it, tell him to take time. Settle his heart and head. Be busy with other things. Maybein time he will find someone who wants to be with him. Or whoo at least has the maturity to sit and work out a problem she is having. Instead of cutting a person completely off, and running away.

if he really love her, let him try to find her once, but i think her girlfriend dont care because she run away and even her family dont care. much better to till him to forget the bad dream of his life let him stand and show her that your not only the one, i can find more than you. her attitude will be shown that even here family is not good. hope your friend will not understand me will.

Sounds like he either did something to scare her off, or she found out something about him that scared her off. Maybe she realized that she just didn't want to be with him for the rest of her life but she is scared to tell him, or she is scared of him. I guess you know more of the story then the rest of us, and he probably knows more of the story then he's telling you i'm willing to bet! Especially if her family doesn't even want to talk to him after they have been in a relationship for four years. Sounds kinda fishy to me.

One thing is running on my mind maybe she dont like to get married because he dont love him anymore and is it possible also that she found someone and be with that guy.I think her parents know where she is because why they dont care about her.

She is in her hibernation mode. She is sorting her thoughts and feelings out. She is not sure if whether marrying her fincee would give meaning to her life. Let her be. and yeah, she owes him an explanation. but if i were the guy, move on. she has chosen a path others will never understand. and its her shot to call. :D

To Publish a searching message in newspaper or ask help from private detectives if your friend really wants to know his fiancee's whereabouts. To be frankly, as her family don't give any help and though their daughter was over 18 years old and could go where she wanted, it is supposed that girl's parents would know where the girl was and agreed her fleing from the weding.

I think that it can be one of two things. 1. she was always dating someone else the whole time and decided that the other guy wasant right for her and moved on or 2. she is just scared of commitment everybody in the world is thats why so many people are getting a divorce so early. When i first got married it seemed like my husband was always doing something to mess us up. He didnt realize it but he was and it was because he wasnt use to being tied down to one person and didnt know how to handle it so to make it alright his brain would tell him that i was trying to control his life instead of seeing it as just me caring about him. As far as you friend goes he should move on with his life she might come back when she thinks that he is doing to good with out her.