How to forget my first love?

@kimiyu (47)
China
January 16, 2008 9:38am CST
After ten years,She has her family and I have mine,but we met by chance last year and then kept in touch to this day.She part with me not because she did not love me but because i went to another city to study for four years and I havn't gone back to her city after my graduation,she wanted to live with her parents and couldn't come here.I want not to hurt my wife and my daughter,I'd rather not met her last year,I want to forget her ,but how??
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positiveminded1977
@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
16 Jan 08
Hmm, I really feel sorry for your innocent wife and daughter. If you loved this girl so much, you should have married her. Why on earth marry someone else and create an all round mess? Personally, I have no faith in this love thing. Better stick to your family and make them happy. You have no complaints against them, do you?
kimiyu
@kimiyu (47)
• China
18 Jan 08
Something is unreasonable,love is one of them. I know what is right,but you know ,the more you want to forget it,the more you remember it .
positiveminded1977
@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
18 Jan 08
:) Maybe... I love my cats so much; a few days back the Tom vanished and I almost went crazy. I can never love a human being like that. People make me sick. But, I sort of understand you. Nothing wrong in loving her. But why wreck your life with your family and her life with her family for the sake of love? Which Holy Book says that if you love, you must get married and live with each other and produce kids together? Love her! Maintain a good relationship that doesn't hurt your family. Cheers!