If you really love her .....

If you want to be optimistic, take daryljane's advice up there. But if you want to be practical and face reality, you have to realize that ntohing really lasts. Because what if they fall out of love with you? What if you do all the things said by the poster above me and still, they leave you? For me, all you have to do is be yourself. Cherish the moments and memories you have together. Just be happy while you're with them. It was the you that he met that he fell in love with, not the pressured one. Not the pressured one that had to conform to all the things that we think make for a perfect relationship. The things that you think will let you keep holding on to what you have. Because sometimes, it takes a lot more than that to succeed in a relationship. If it's just your half best being given, then that's more of a companionship rather than a relationship. Just be honest with yourself at all tiems. It's all about including them in your life. Making them feel like they're a part of you as much as you want to be a part of them. But don't choke them, they need their space as well. So they can feel like their own selves. Make them feel wanted too.