Go for the one you love or the one who love's you?

my bestfriend and i had this discussion too a while back and we both agreed both. i know that i'm supposed to choose ONE but both and if not both, the one that loves you. i guess we're both just so tired of being so hurt and broken from trying to be with the one that we loved. we just got tired of being treated like trash. :) so if i had to choose one, the one who love me.

I think that you should go for the one that loves you because the one you love might not be feeling the same way but if you go for the one who loves he or she is going to be there forever and then you will just grow to love them.

It is more blessed to give than to recieve, I rather go for the one I love, because everyone can respond to love. If I show deep unconditional love to someone, I know the person will grow to love me too, though it might take i little while

I don't know who i'd choose between the two. It's just that most likely people tend to choose the person who loves them and avoid being hurt. But it's all the same to me because you'll still hurt that way. As for me maybe it depends upon the situation i'm in cause if the person I love loves me back, that's be great right? And if he doesn't, that would surely suc*! If the person I love loves me back i'd choose him, obviously. But if he doesn't I wouldn't choose the person who loves me cause if I did, I'd only hurt him and that would really be unfair. right? And also I'd hurt myself in the process. Feeling so low about myself that I'd have to use another guy to forget one guy. But if the case is that I don't have someone I love and the one who loves me comes along, why not give it a chance? I have nothing to lose, right? Maybe i'd also fall for that person. :)

i go for the one who loves me...coz i'm sure that he won't do anything to hurt me, coz he loves me so much....unlike someone you love but can never love you back....it will hurt you more if you choose that person....but the one who loves you, i'm sure time will come that you will also learn to love him as much as he loves you.

I have learned in the past from too many romantic novels and chick flicks that you can never teach a heart to love. You can put a mask over it and pretend to be something that you are not but in the end, the truth will always prevail. Go for the one you love. If you really do love the person, it would not matter if the love is requited or not. All that matters is that you followed your heart and you may experience a lot of pain along the way, but wouldn't the be better than spending the rest of your life being unfair to yourself and to your partner if you go for the one that love's you? If that's the case, then you would be cheating not only on your partner but to yourself as well. Your heart would not be in the relationship. So, you would always be looking for something else. You might also end up finding comfort in someone else. What good would that do? I think it would hurt the person that loves you a whole lot more and you'd be hurting yourself a lot too.

I will go for the one whom I love because he is the one who loves me.