Have you ever....
By Kandikisses
@Kandikisses (39)
United States
January 16, 2008 2:29pm CST
HAve you ever loved someone that didn't love you the same way back? How do you foget about this person?
3 responses
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
17 Jan 08
I am sure I have but there's never a time I can remember this though.
I have this guy who loves me and I am like soooo not into more than a friendship right now with any male I have a messed up life enough without adding them in the mix as more than the friend and I have tried to have a relationship and the last one honestly as honestly as I can be did not even half work. This was probably cos of the Star Sign but that's just a random guess though. We were both Piscians and some how I don't think that two of the same Star Sign works like i just said.
I am going to get going now. Thanks for your Question and Good Luck.
@sojournseeker (1244)
• United States
17 Jan 08
If it is true deep feelings of love for someone else, the memory of them never wanes. Distance is a good thing to put between you two for now, let the hurt heal itself, let the relationship follow its own course without pressure. I was in a relationship, for 15 months after being a friend for 16 years and even after moving him in, I still could not give 'all of myself' and found loving him in the same capacity he loved me was just not working. I could not fall head over heels in love with anyone new, while I was not over someone from old . . . still in admitting my feelings did not run as deep as his, we fell out as friends also, it was just too difficult for him to accept a 'turn-down' and made it a nasty bitter fascimile of closure.
But I have moved on . . . and doing a little better learning from the whole experience. I probably will never forget as any level of love, does get remembered no matter how deep we bury it in our subconscious.
sharing the light and happy new year,
Miss Erica Hidvegi, the Enlightenment_Advisor, B.A. Psych/M.A. Transpersonal Studies- Cnslng/Author, Artist, Photographer, Entrepreneur & Freelance extraordinaire
www.enlightenment-psych.net
@christin88 (22)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Yes I have been there and dont that. I dont think that you can forget about them that easy I think that it takes time. I loved this guy for a long time and it wasnt till I found my soul mate that made me finally able to put that love to bed. Im not saying find someone to replace him. But you can just continue to move and who know what can happen from there.