What will your spouse complain about you?

gosh! how do I pick one from his list of complaints? Just kidding....he has just one complaint and that's that I talk too much (it's a problem when the talking happens to be on the phone). There are other problems that arise too due to my talking too much...I never know when to stop and then the conversation goes into a totally different level and might lead to an argument. He says...if only I kept my mouth shut, he has nothing to complain about. So, I refuse to do it because I don't want to be perfect..lol:P

I guess if my husband was going to complain about me he would say that I am headstrong. I have very strong opinions and I tend to voice them. However this is one of the things I know he loves about me also, just probably wishing it was not directed towards him too.

my husband always complain i work to hard around the house. he always wish i can sit down for atleast an hour. i always have something to do. he is happy if i sit down in front of the computer to mylot becuase he knows that i am relaxing

Hello dear youless. My wife complains about my not taking a fast action when I have to do something. I agree with her and I always tell her that I will always be able to do my job well in the last minute. lol By the way, I think that you are a good wife to your hubby as can be seen from your own comment on yourself, my dear youless. Be always a good wife to him and there is one thing that I almost forgot, that is, I once remembered that you were his queen as always and so you are as always.

Im not married yet but I live with my boyfriend. The things that he always complaint about me over and over again that I can't be relax. He said always have to somethins, and things have to in order, coz I would stressed out if I found somthings wasn't right. My CD have to its place, books have to be in right place and stuff. I just want everythings right but I know sometimes I should take a time off. Just to let go..maybe its okay to let things mess a little bit.

Hmmmm...he would probably complain that I worry about my job too much, and that I don't do a lot around the house -I'm sorry, but I am not the one who always has 3 day weekends. I work all odd hours and never know for sure when I am going to be home. He always knows what hours he works. And he would say that I am moody, which I am. Even more so with this new medication that I am taking. Other than that I think he is happy with me. It has been almost 6 years, so if he isn't happy then there must be something else there?

hi youless! well, i guess the main complaint of my husband about me is that i get disappointed too often. and when i am disappointed, i fall into a really bad mood, and everything will really go sour throughout the day. i would be impatient and irritable. but the problem is, i seem to be able to successfully control myself in front of other people, but i let my guard down and let it all loose with my husband. so he gets the brunt of everything. after the episode, i will feel bad with what i did to him...but then, i had already made him really angry that it will take awhile for him to return to his good mood. well, so far that's it. God bless you youless! :-)

Thank-you youless, you are probably correct. It makes alot of sense, so I will try to take your advice, however it will be really hard, but well worth a shot!

Hi, what would my husband comlapn about most with me? Likely that I complain about his long work hours and that I hardly ever get to see or talk to him. I know I shouldn't complain so much because it only makes him angry, and I know he is doing it for me. But I know for a fact, he has a demanding job and which is strongly encouraging that he give 20 hours a day to. Yes he has lot's of importamt and very influential associates, however, would it kill him to let his voicemail take a call or 2 at 9:00 pm when I am trying to have an important family related conversation with him? I guess this sounds more like my complaint about him, however, he is usually the one who gets angry and ends up slamming doors. Also, however, to be fair, I also must mention that he gets 5 paid weeks holidays per year and we have both learned to get on a plane for somewhere for a week at a time. However, his boss and others, have managed to catch up with him once in awhile too. If we stay home for a week to work around the house, he still answers his cell phone. I am constantly at him to turn the cell phone off! And then he complains that I don't understand business and being available for the customer and that's what brings in the big money. Itry to tell him that money can not replace love. He agrees, takes me out to dinner and answers his cell phone or comes home to 'crunch numbers' in his office until way into the wee hours!~

That I am overprotective when it comes to my son.

my husband is always upset with me because i am so forgetful. sometimes i forget to swith off the light and leave it on the whole day (while we go out to work), at times i forget lock my car... most of the time - i forget where i put my things - keys, glasses, purse... any ideas on how to improve ?? :-C

well if all he can say is you are lazy then you are doinf good. my husband would say the same thing. if thats all he can complain about then hey he must be happy with everything else.