Am I rushing
By djamshizzle
@djamshizzle (75)
United States
January 17, 2008 9:33am CST
My past two relationships I was so certain that I was going to marry them....but if I had I would have missed the next person in my life.....
So what if the next person I date I actually do marry??
I am worried now that I am rushing into wanting to get married...
and when i get married....what if there is another person after?
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
17 Jan 08
It does sound like you're a bit marriage obsessed right now. What I think you need to do is take some time off of dating to reassess yourself. About 6 months to a year, I would recommend. Figure out who you are as a woman and as an individual. Then start to figure out what you want out of life and in a man. Then, once you're certain of who YOU are and what YOU want, then you can go out dating and be confidant that you're not looking for validation through marriage. You are your own person, you don't have to be married to be of worth.
