your significant other and you MUST have "the talk" how do YOU do it?

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all couples need to have "the talk" once in a while and as much as your husband/fiance/bf dread it, it must be done. so then, how do you do it to avoid an argument? or do you just plain argue and scream about it? i try using the 'sweet' technique. my husband and i used to argue a lot because of my bad temper. luckily for me, my husband is extremely patient so he used to sit there through the yellings and screamings. now a days, thanks to my best friend, i try to be sweet. for example, "you're short, but i love it because i don't have to tip-toe to kiss you." type of thing. (he is short but i do love it. lol!) also, i talk when we're busy doing house things like when he's helping me cook or wash the dishes. OR in the shower or even when we're JUST about to sleep. instead of arguing these days, it's become a fun type of discussion that we both enjoy. we don't argue anymore, but we do tend to debate on things. the difference now is that we end it with a smile and a friendly punch on the shoulder, from me that is.